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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 258784" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>I certainly hope the judge is able to see that what is clearly in the best interest of this lil guy is that he stays with you where he's become stable and happy. </p><p> </p><p>His behavior would be a huge red flag to me (if I were a judge) that obviously things on the homefront were so bad for this child he is willing to do whatever he can think of to remain in a place he feels safe and loved. To me.....that is profound from a child of any age.......but from one so young OMG it all but hits you over the head.</p><p> </p><p>I'm no fan of reunification. I think it was a pipe drream thought up by the system who hoped to ease their load by returning kids home. Yes, there is the rare occasion when it works. But it is rare indeed, and for the ones it doesn't.....the child is traumatized yet again, and again, and again. Sad when the whole purpose is supposed to put the needs and welfare of the child first.</p><p> </p><p>Maybe someday difficult child will be ready to parent. If not now, I hope the judge is wise enough to see it. And I'm praying grandson gets to stay with you.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 258784, member: 84"] I certainly hope the judge is able to see that what is clearly in the best interest of this lil guy is that he stays with you where he's become stable and happy. His behavior would be a huge red flag to me (if I were a judge) that obviously things on the homefront were so bad for this child he is willing to do whatever he can think of to remain in a place he feels safe and loved. To me.....that is profound from a child of any age.......but from one so young OMG it all but hits you over the head. I'm no fan of reunification. I think it was a pipe drream thought up by the system who hoped to ease their load by returning kids home. Yes, there is the rare occasion when it works. But it is rare indeed, and for the ones it doesn't.....the child is traumatized yet again, and again, and again. Sad when the whole purpose is supposed to put the needs and welfare of the child first. Maybe someday difficult child will be ready to parent. If not now, I hope the judge is wise enough to see it. And I'm praying grandson gets to stay with you. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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