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Grandson Will Be Going Home By Christmas
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 212489" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am with Star. I think that if the requirements for reunification in a situation like yours are ridiculous. A few parenting classes and/or anger management classes are not going to make him a good dad and they are not going Occupational Therapist (OT) make the house habitable or put food on the table.</p><p> </p><p>I hope and pray that the "system" supervises this very very closely - like with the microscope and unreasonable demands that parents like klmno have had to face. because I really do NOT think his father is going to shape up, nor the stepmom. Watch closely, do everything you can to keep in contact with him, and if possible have YOUR attorney fight for visitation rights at the least.</p><p> </p><p>Are they hopefully going to start with a few supervised visits (supervised by someone other than YOU - that would be so stressful for you!), then a couple of hours unsupervised to build up to an overnight and then moving back? because it seems so WRONG to just up and move him suddenly with no warning. You may need to work on that with teh case worker or a therapist as it will undoubtedly bring up issues.</p><p> </p><p>Sending very very gentle hugs for your hurting heart, and for gs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 212489, member: 1233"] I am with Star. I think that if the requirements for reunification in a situation like yours are ridiculous. A few parenting classes and/or anger management classes are not going to make him a good dad and they are not going Occupational Therapist (OT) make the house habitable or put food on the table. I hope and pray that the "system" supervises this very very closely - like with the microscope and unreasonable demands that parents like klmno have had to face. because I really do NOT think his father is going to shape up, nor the stepmom. Watch closely, do everything you can to keep in contact with him, and if possible have YOUR attorney fight for visitation rights at the least. Are they hopefully going to start with a few supervised visits (supervised by someone other than YOU - that would be so stressful for you!), then a couple of hours unsupervised to build up to an overnight and then moving back? because it seems so WRONG to just up and move him suddenly with no warning. You may need to work on that with teh case worker or a therapist as it will undoubtedly bring up issues. Sending very very gentle hugs for your hurting heart, and for gs. [/QUOTE]
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