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<blockquote data-quote="Skylark Matrix" data-source="post: 66796" data-attributes="member: 3919"><p>I know in my head that part of my grief over my current difficult child is because I had so much silent grief when our second child left home at age 13. There is no real support when a child does something totally stupid. If she would have died we would have got sympathy cards, time off from work, etc. etc. When they run away you get nothing but rumors and accusations. I never really got over that. Now with the youngest one sort of repeating history it opens up all the old buried wounds. Even when my normal child went to college I cried and mourned profusely, everytime he went to college in the fall. I realized only a couple weeks ago that I don't cry anymore when he leaves after a visit. </p><p>I'm just rambling..... we do need to take care of our own hearts and it is so hard with special needs child because we know they can't take care of themselves.</p><p>Thank you Lord for inspiring whoever it was who made this website.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Skylark Matrix, post: 66796, member: 3919"] I know in my head that part of my grief over my current difficult child is because I had so much silent grief when our second child left home at age 13. There is no real support when a child does something totally stupid. If she would have died we would have got sympathy cards, time off from work, etc. etc. When they run away you get nothing but rumors and accusations. I never really got over that. Now with the youngest one sort of repeating history it opens up all the old buried wounds. Even when my normal child went to college I cried and mourned profusely, everytime he went to college in the fall. I realized only a couple weeks ago that I don't cry anymore when he leaves after a visit. I'm just rambling..... we do need to take care of our own hearts and it is so hard with special needs child because we know they can't take care of themselves. Thank you Lord for inspiring whoever it was who made this website. [/QUOTE]
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