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<blockquote data-quote="dreamer" data-source="post: 11094" data-attributes="member: 1697"><p>I am just wondering how the topic of your watching the video came up- how it was worded etc. Is it possible maybe you yourself seemed to wonder if it was ok or not and the therapist turned it around and made it a question for you to ask yourself? and answer yourself? </p><p>Or-- another way it might really be is......maybe they were playing devils advocate? </p><p></p><p>Remember- our feelings are our own and we own them and feelings are OK------noone else can ever tell us how we "should" feel. If you feel comfort watching the video- then watch it. Noone should deny another person the right to self comfort, especially if what you are doing for self comfort is not hurting anyone else.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dreamer, post: 11094, member: 1697"] I am just wondering how the topic of your watching the video came up- how it was worded etc. Is it possible maybe you yourself seemed to wonder if it was ok or not and the therapist turned it around and made it a question for you to ask yourself? and answer yourself? Or-- another way it might really be is......maybe they were playing devils advocate? Remember- our feelings are our own and we own them and feelings are OK------noone else can ever tell us how we "should" feel. If you feel comfort watching the video- then watch it. Noone should deny another person the right to self comfort, especially if what you are doing for self comfort is not hurting anyone else. [/QUOTE]
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