Hi, husband and I have never created a will even though we know it is something we really should do. I just dont know who I would ask to take the kids if something happened to both of us. When easy child 1 was born we talked to a relative about being a guardian if the worst happened. But we never put it in writing and many years and two more kids later we agree that initial choice is not what we want. There is another relative and their spouse that we had agree to ask if they would be the guardians with but they already have kids and I know that even if they agreed if it ever happened difficult child could destroy their family. My mom is the only person who can really handle difficult child but my Dad can not do it at his age and although they might be fine now even my Mom could not handle difficult child thru high school because of the age she would be at that point. What do you do with a difficult child in this case? Obviously I hope this is something that never has to happen but I still want to have something in writing in case it does. I welcome any thoughts/input.