I'm currently being pressed by county mental health to name guardians for kt & wm should something happen to me. I've also been advised by my attorney (after husband's death I contacted an attorney for several issues including my will & advanced directives, etc) that I need to name guardians as well as set up an special needs trust for the tweedles. Having said all that, I'm struggling to find someone to take on tweedles dee & dum. My family has always been supportive however they've seen the tweedles in all their "glory. My siblings don't feel they can handle this especially since kt & wm have hit adolescence. They are aware of all it takes; everything that needs to be done on their behalf. None feel they have the time nor the "expertise" needed. husband's sisters refused. Personally, I'm running out of options. The tweedles will be 18 in just over 3 years - I just need things covered until then. Please know my family loves kt & wm - they feel they would be in over their heads. The same with husband's sisters. Have any of you had trouble with this issue?