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<blockquote data-quote="Kalahou" data-source="post: 681972" data-attributes="member: 19617"><p>Aloha Leaf,</p><p>I have been thinking about this episode. I know it was hard and some of it was too much for you. I have felt like this also in some situations. But I think what happened was something good also. You saw your <em>mo`opuna</em>, hugged them, they talked, you cried. They saw your tears and hugged you long. They know you care for and miss them, as they do also care and miss you. This is a memory for them. They know you are there for them, and always will be.</p><p></p><p>It’s not uncommon to have a peacemaker within the family to want to<em> ponopono</em> the family members and "make right" the broken family relations. Your little Hoku star looks to be trying to relate to her sisters by being an example of forgiving, and gratitude and love, making an impact, even if in little steps.</p><p></p><p>I might be missing something, Leafy. But I see that Tornado made a first small move to reach out. She initiated seeking you out in the back room, greeted you by name and gave a hug. That’s a small step, but I see it as respect. Perhaps it’s hard for her also. I’m sure she was also uncomfortable, feeling her way, and perhaps that’s all she could handle for right now, working through some of her own guilt and shame.</p><p></p><p>This is good, Leafy. This is another step, even if small and temporary… a caring sister attempts a connection to plant a seed to show a better way. A seed if nurtured brings forth it’s kind, in its own time. I'm hopeful her sister's gesture meant something good to Rain. A small step.</p><p></p><p>Yes, it is another chapter. And the journey continues, and we stay patient and thankful, knowing all things work together for good. Take it slow, step by step, as it feels OK to do. I wanted to see the good in this situation because I have been putting to practice your insight on your other thread about "power of thoughts." If we don't like what we see, we can try to change "how" we see it.</p><p>Keep the peace of heart and mind, dear Tita. You are going to be alright. It's all pono.</p><p><em>Aloha ke akua. Kalahou</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kalahou, post: 681972, member: 19617"] Aloha Leaf, I have been thinking about this episode. I know it was hard and some of it was too much for you. I have felt like this also in some situations. But I think what happened was something good also. You saw your [I]mo`opuna[/I], hugged them, they talked, you cried. They saw your tears and hugged you long. They know you care for and miss them, as they do also care and miss you. This is a memory for them. They know you are there for them, and always will be. It’s not uncommon to have a peacemaker within the family to want to[I] ponopono[/I] the family members and "make right" the broken family relations. Your little Hoku star looks to be trying to relate to her sisters by being an example of forgiving, and gratitude and love, making an impact, even if in little steps. I might be missing something, Leafy. But I see that Tornado made a first small move to reach out. She initiated seeking you out in the back room, greeted you by name and gave a hug. That’s a small step, but I see it as respect. Perhaps it’s hard for her also. I’m sure she was also uncomfortable, feeling her way, and perhaps that’s all she could handle for right now, working through some of her own guilt and shame. This is good, Leafy. This is another step, even if small and temporary… a caring sister attempts a connection to plant a seed to show a better way. A seed if nurtured brings forth it’s kind, in its own time. I'm hopeful her sister's gesture meant something good to Rain. A small step. Yes, it is another chapter. And the journey continues, and we stay patient and thankful, knowing all things work together for good. Take it slow, step by step, as it feels OK to do. I wanted to see the good in this situation because I have been putting to practice your insight on your other thread about "power of thoughts." If we don't like what we see, we can try to change "how" we see it. Keep the peace of heart and mind, dear Tita. You are going to be alright. It's all pono. [I]Aloha ke akua. Kalahou[/I] [/QUOTE]
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