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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 563173" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I've hosted far too many difficult children with records. on the other hand, maybe preaching to the choir, an arrest record does not mean that you are a danger to society. Truthfully I wish they would separate arrests into categories...at least subdivide them into violent and non-violent. My difficult child#1 show's up with like eight charges online. He was arrested one for having pot resideau on the floor of the back seat of his car (no joint, no bong etc.) and was found guilty of a misdemeanor. That is listed twice (the arrest, the court date) plus a third entry when he was having brain surgery and missed his monthly probation appointment. He was arrested before that for pot possession, kept overnight and then the charges dropped the next morning because the officer had no evidence to present to the Court. (There was no evidence. It was just small town cop buggin a teen.) Then the rest has to do with the Rx pills in the back of his unoccupied car. He agreed to a plea bargain because he wanted to come home and at eighteen they let the kid do that straight after he got home from rehab.</p><p></p><p>As you all know I have "a thing" about how easily kids lives are messed with by teenage non violent arrests. SO, Nancy, I think you should do what makes you comfortable. on the other hand I guarantee you that there are alot of easy child/difficult child's who have mug shots and are safe and fun company. In fact (don't horse whip me, lol) it's possible that he wanted to invite your difficult child and his parents said "no way". Life's weird. Hugs DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 563173, member: 35"] I've hosted far too many difficult children with records. on the other hand, maybe preaching to the choir, an arrest record does not mean that you are a danger to society. Truthfully I wish they would separate arrests into categories...at least subdivide them into violent and non-violent. My difficult child#1 show's up with like eight charges online. He was arrested one for having pot resideau on the floor of the back seat of his car (no joint, no bong etc.) and was found guilty of a misdemeanor. That is listed twice (the arrest, the court date) plus a third entry when he was having brain surgery and missed his monthly probation appointment. He was arrested before that for pot possession, kept overnight and then the charges dropped the next morning because the officer had no evidence to present to the Court. (There was no evidence. It was just small town cop buggin a teen.) Then the rest has to do with the Rx pills in the back of his unoccupied car. He agreed to a plea bargain because he wanted to come home and at eighteen they let the kid do that straight after he got home from rehab. As you all know I have "a thing" about how easily kids lives are messed with by teenage non violent arrests. SO, Nancy, I think you should do what makes you comfortable. on the other hand I guarantee you that there are alot of easy child/difficult child's who have mug shots and are safe and fun company. In fact (don't horse whip me, lol) it's possible that he wanted to invite your difficult child and his parents said "no way". Life's weird. Hugs DDD [/QUOTE]
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