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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 203688" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi,</p><p></p><p>that is so great that when he plays it's as if he's in a different world. that is how i feel about my difficult child when she is acting/singing in her new theater group. it's soo healthy for them i think to have that outlet i think it's great you have created it for him. truly.</p><p></p><p>i share your thoughts on this totally. i really do. there are also video tapes i believe you can get at the library with the basics of guitar. i decided that if once difficult child started the theatre group she became too anxiety ridden due to the other children that i would not push her to go forward. i also decided that if the play date comes in january and she cna't make herself go no stage which to be honest i am thinking is a def. possibility i will not get upset i will just say well maybe next time. granted the dance school will be totally irrate because she actually got a real part iwth a few lines. yet who cares.</p><p></p><p>anyway i rambled just wanted to say i think you made the best choice and a wise choice. after time in his own time and becoming more comfortable maybe than he will want to attend the class. maybe you could start by having him play infront of family and when he sees what praise he is getting it will boost his confidence than maybe just maybe you can slowly ease him in.</p><p>my difficult child has tons and tons of anxiety as well and social anxiety. i'm getting her tested for asperger's or high functioning autism just to double check me that it wasn't missed. they say those children due to the misdiagnosis can fall into depression, become anxiety ridden, etc. and exhibit behaviors that look as if it's tons of different disorders.</p><p></p><p>i wish you luck as always. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 203688, member: 4514"] hi, that is so great that when he plays it's as if he's in a different world. that is how i feel about my difficult child when she is acting/singing in her new theater group. it's soo healthy for them i think to have that outlet i think it's great you have created it for him. truly. i share your thoughts on this totally. i really do. there are also video tapes i believe you can get at the library with the basics of guitar. i decided that if once difficult child started the theatre group she became too anxiety ridden due to the other children that i would not push her to go forward. i also decided that if the play date comes in january and she cna't make herself go no stage which to be honest i am thinking is a def. possibility i will not get upset i will just say well maybe next time. granted the dance school will be totally irrate because she actually got a real part iwth a few lines. yet who cares. anyway i rambled just wanted to say i think you made the best choice and a wise choice. after time in his own time and becoming more comfortable maybe than he will want to attend the class. maybe you could start by having him play infront of family and when he sees what praise he is getting it will boost his confidence than maybe just maybe you can slowly ease him in. my difficult child has tons and tons of anxiety as well and social anxiety. i'm getting her tested for asperger's or high functioning autism just to double check me that it wasn't missed. they say those children due to the misdiagnosis can fall into depression, become anxiety ridden, etc. and exhibit behaviors that look as if it's tons of different disorders. i wish you luck as always. :) [/QUOTE]
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