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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 198800" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>No defense of porn from me either. Regardless of anyone's personal feelings about it, if porn is the substance that was being abused then it has no place in your relationship with H.</p><p></p><p>As for this episode, I agree with MB that if he didn't care deeply about you he would still be drinking and using porn. Your H made what he thought was an idle comment. He's been "good" for 2 years, so perhaps he figures that since he's over his problem with porn that you must be as well. </p><p></p><p>However, he seems to have no idea of the depth of hurt that he caused you over it. If he knows what's good for him, he should stay far far away from idle comments about porn or the people who use it, addicted or otherwise.</p><p></p><p>I think your H needs to fully understand and acknowledge your pain. AND grovel. AND do some serious penance.</p><p></p><p>Please don't let him make you question your attractiveness. He was being terribly insensitive, but I don't think he was being deliberately cruel, nor do I think he was deliberately equating David Duchovny & Tea Leoni's situation with your own. He probably just didn't think about it at all.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry Jo.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 198800, member: 3907"] No defense of porn from me either. Regardless of anyone's personal feelings about it, if porn is the substance that was being abused then it has no place in your relationship with H. As for this episode, I agree with MB that if he didn't care deeply about you he would still be drinking and using porn. Your H made what he thought was an idle comment. He's been "good" for 2 years, so perhaps he figures that since he's over his problem with porn that you must be as well. However, he seems to have no idea of the depth of hurt that he caused you over it. If he knows what's good for him, he should stay far far away from idle comments about porn or the people who use it, addicted or otherwise. I think your H needs to fully understand and acknowledge your pain. AND grovel. AND do some serious penance. Please don't let him make you question your attractiveness. He was being terribly insensitive, but I don't think he was being deliberately cruel, nor do I think he was deliberately equating David Duchovny & Tea Leoni's situation with your own. He probably just didn't think about it at all. I'm sorry Jo. [/QUOTE]
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