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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 483243" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>My daughter in law doesnt see all that much wrong with her dtr. Oh she gets mad at her and screams at her constantly but she thinks that is perfectly normal. She thinks she is a wonderful parent. In fact, she has started babysitting the kids next door! That is going to be a nightmare because both little girls are named Hailie, both have issues. I am convinced my hailie is either bipolar...well I think it is temper dysregulation disorder along with some parenting issues, and the other Haley is either high functioning autistic or Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD). My daughter in law says oh she is just ADHD. No, I have seen ADHD for years up close and personal and this kid isnt ADHD. Yeah she is active but her social skills are nil, she cant make eye contact and she stims and toe walks. She has Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD). What kills me is the mother works in the school system somewhere in the Special Education dept and she doesnt recognize it in her own kid. Pitiful. My daughter in law says teacher but I have met the woman and I doubt she is a teacher, she doesnt seem bright enough to be a teacher. Maybe aide or 1:1 or even secretary or something like that. </p><p></p><p>But I worry about anyone being babysat in that house. daughter in law loves to sit on FB all day and let the kids watch TV to amuse themselves but my hailie has a mean streak and will turn on the other one. I have seen it. One day she went up to the other little girls house and invited her down to her house and as soon as haley H got down to my Hailie's house she turned to Haley H and said "go away, I dont want you hear" and slammed the door in her face! I was sitting outside smoking a cigarette and was astounded. My daughter in law was outside too when it happened and she just looked at Haley H and told her to go home, that her dtr didnt want to play anymore. I would have tore my kids butts up for acting like that. My hailie doesnt get any consequences for her actions unless I do it when I am there and she hates me for it and my daughter in law goes behind my back and undo's it by saying there there, its okay, grandma didnt mean it. Then she takes her out of time out early. I dont even spank her like I would do Keyana for bad behavior. Heck, I hardly have to spank Keyana but I am perfectly capable and have the parents permission to treat her as my own child. I am expected to treat Cory's children as my own.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 483243, member: 1514"] My daughter in law doesnt see all that much wrong with her dtr. Oh she gets mad at her and screams at her constantly but she thinks that is perfectly normal. She thinks she is a wonderful parent. In fact, she has started babysitting the kids next door! That is going to be a nightmare because both little girls are named Hailie, both have issues. I am convinced my hailie is either bipolar...well I think it is temper dysregulation disorder along with some parenting issues, and the other Haley is either high functioning autistic or Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD). My daughter in law says oh she is just ADHD. No, I have seen ADHD for years up close and personal and this kid isnt ADHD. Yeah she is active but her social skills are nil, she cant make eye contact and she stims and toe walks. She has Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD). What kills me is the mother works in the school system somewhere in the Special Education dept and she doesnt recognize it in her own kid. Pitiful. My daughter in law says teacher but I have met the woman and I doubt she is a teacher, she doesnt seem bright enough to be a teacher. Maybe aide or 1:1 or even secretary or something like that. But I worry about anyone being babysat in that house. daughter in law loves to sit on FB all day and let the kids watch TV to amuse themselves but my hailie has a mean streak and will turn on the other one. I have seen it. One day she went up to the other little girls house and invited her down to her house and as soon as haley H got down to my Hailie's house she turned to Haley H and said "go away, I dont want you hear" and slammed the door in her face! I was sitting outside smoking a cigarette and was astounded. My daughter in law was outside too when it happened and she just looked at Haley H and told her to go home, that her dtr didnt want to play anymore. I would have tore my kids butts up for acting like that. My hailie doesnt get any consequences for her actions unless I do it when I am there and she hates me for it and my daughter in law goes behind my back and undo's it by saying there there, its okay, grandma didnt mean it. Then she takes her out of time out early. I dont even spank her like I would do Keyana for bad behavior. Heck, I hardly have to spank Keyana but I am perfectly capable and have the parents permission to treat her as my own child. I am expected to treat Cory's children as my own. [/QUOTE]
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