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Had an interesting, if gutwrenching therapy appointment
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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 9172" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>I cried when I read your post. My mother was equal to yours. I wonder how my life would be different if I had been loved and cherished. My difficult children relationship to us, how would that be different? My mother would call difficult child and tell him not to listen to me-encouraging his behavior to me, and tell him to say things that she always says. When your mom told other people horrible things about you she was just exposing herself as the monster she is. Personally I am a 40-year old anorexic.I never weighed over 100 pounds from age 15-34.At age 34 I got sick and tried to stay at 110, but recently it's gotten away from me again.I think servere damage was done to me as a child by her constant abuse. My whole feeling about myself depends on what I weigh, and what I eat each day.I know its wrong. But I can't help it. I feel crazy. I'm not sure if it is because of the horrors I lived through coupled with the fact that my brain isn't wired correctly. But I think so . I know I showed love, support and cherished my children, encouraging them to be and do whatever they wanted to be happy. I think I must have passed some type of genetic mental problems to difficult child. You did cherish and love your kids, and thats all any kid really needs. Everyone makes mistakes and can look back in hindsight, but I think you are a good, wonderful, loving caring mom.-Alyssa</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 9172, member: 2668"] I cried when I read your post. My mother was equal to yours. I wonder how my life would be different if I had been loved and cherished. My difficult children relationship to us, how would that be different? My mother would call difficult child and tell him not to listen to me-encouraging his behavior to me, and tell him to say things that she always says. When your mom told other people horrible things about you she was just exposing herself as the monster she is. Personally I am a 40-year old anorexic.I never weighed over 100 pounds from age 15-34.At age 34 I got sick and tried to stay at 110, but recently it's gotten away from me again.I think servere damage was done to me as a child by her constant abuse. My whole feeling about myself depends on what I weigh, and what I eat each day.I know its wrong. But I can't help it. I feel crazy. I'm not sure if it is because of the horrors I lived through coupled with the fact that my brain isn't wired correctly. But I think so . I know I showed love, support and cherished my children, encouraging them to be and do whatever they wanted to be happy. I think I must have passed some type of genetic mental problems to difficult child. You did cherish and love your kids, and thats all any kid really needs. Everyone makes mistakes and can look back in hindsight, but I think you are a good, wonderful, loving caring mom.-Alyssa [/QUOTE]
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