nateisnuts
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So....we had the meeting yesterday morning. I let them know right up front that i was not happy with the recommendation and asked whet i could do about it. They told me i could go to a different agency if i felt i needed to. But the coordinator told me that if i took the behavior services through them that we would have a new evaluation in 2 months anyways and then i would have A's (the behavior specialist) input and report. Then i could ask for family based dervices and a tss aide if the 4 hours with A were not cutting it. Well i already know its not going to. I will play their little game though if i have to to get difficult child what he needs. Also when we take him to the neurologist on the 23rd im going to ask about a neuropsychologist evaluation. Ive already got my back up about a few things that A is suggesting. We talked about reducing the amount of toys he has out in the living room, dividing the toys into 3 or smaller boxes and he can pick one type of toy at a time to play with. We are in total agreement there. But she's talking about reducing his play space down to about a 5 foot square area. Im not ok with that. We live in a very small house, 1 bedroom for all 3 of us, it was actually a garage structure that the previous owner converted into a little guest house. He hardly has room now, im not gonna shrink it! Plus she was talking about then using that space as a time out....what?! Im not going to "cage" my son! And im sorry, if you use that strategy and it works for you then great, its just not going to work for us. And as a side note im not going to move my gate between the living room and kitchen cause my 8 month old is crawling now. So we will have to see how we get along when i tell her im not using that idea. She seems a bit set in her ideas Know what I mean??
Yesterday after he meeting i had to run a few errands with my mom. For you moms who have boys who are adhd,odd,dbd, whichever lol HOW DO YOU TAKE THEM OUT?????? I wanna cry every time i have to go out in public with difficult child! He wont sit in the cart, screams to be held, if we get him out he runs off, knocks things over and on and on. And its just not practical to say walk away and leave the cart sit and leave. We are 45 min minimum from the closet town with a walmart, which is where i do my shopping. Plus alot of the time im with my mom and its not fair to make her leave either you know? difficult child should not have that control! Weve brought toys with, snacks, tried getting him to help, let him push the cart.....need new ideas lol UGH here i went and wrote a book again, im sorry! but thank you for reading it and thank you for any help!!yes
Yesterday after he meeting i had to run a few errands with my mom. For you moms who have boys who are adhd,odd,dbd, whichever lol HOW DO YOU TAKE THEM OUT?????? I wanna cry every time i have to go out in public with difficult child! He wont sit in the cart, screams to be held, if we get him out he runs off, knocks things over and on and on. And its just not practical to say walk away and leave the cart sit and leave. We are 45 min minimum from the closet town with a walmart, which is where i do my shopping. Plus alot of the time im with my mom and its not fair to make her leave either you know? difficult child should not have that control! Weve brought toys with, snacks, tried getting him to help, let him push the cart.....need new ideas lol UGH here i went and wrote a book again, im sorry! but thank you for reading it and thank you for any help!!yes