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Harassment by She-Spawn's Spouse
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 618415" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Sounds like you've had a really rough time of it. I'm really sorry. Her husband sounds like a big loser. Good for your husband for filing harassment charges.</p><p></p><p>As for your ex....next time he tells you not to ruin your daughter's life, remind him that it is already ruined and she was the one who ruined it and is doing nothing to change that. </p><p></p><p>Your daughter is really not that horrendously unusual, as much as people don't discuss their problem kids. All of us here understand what your daughter did and the awfulness of it and a few of us had a difficult child who married a difficult child so we get that too. They mainly steal from us for drug money. They swear, yell, even assault us sometimes. We sometimes have trouble finding any love in our hearts for them when they are being awful. That is normal too.</p><p></p><p>Go on with your own life and enjoy your husband and your family and friends who treat you with respect and love. Detach from those who do not. Most of all, maybe find a therapist or a twelve step group so that you can learn how to take care of the only person on earth that you have control over...yourself. You need to be nice to you. And you should surround yourself with those who realize that you are valuable and worthwhile. All of us have made mistakes. That doesn't mean we deserve to be abused and treated like dirt.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 618415, member: 1550"] Sounds like you've had a really rough time of it. I'm really sorry. Her husband sounds like a big loser. Good for your husband for filing harassment charges. As for your ex....next time he tells you not to ruin your daughter's life, remind him that it is already ruined and she was the one who ruined it and is doing nothing to change that. Your daughter is really not that horrendously unusual, as much as people don't discuss their problem kids. All of us here understand what your daughter did and the awfulness of it and a few of us had a difficult child who married a difficult child so we get that too. They mainly steal from us for drug money. They swear, yell, even assault us sometimes. We sometimes have trouble finding any love in our hearts for them when they are being awful. That is normal too. Go on with your own life and enjoy your husband and your family and friends who treat you with respect and love. Detach from those who do not. Most of all, maybe find a therapist or a twelve step group so that you can learn how to take care of the only person on earth that you have control over...yourself. You need to be nice to you. And you should surround yourself with those who realize that you are valuable and worthwhile. All of us have made mistakes. That doesn't mean we deserve to be abused and treated like dirt. [/QUOTE]
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