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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 618450" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>You are not a monster, you have just reached your limit. My difficult child was difficult from the time he was born and also started using drugs at an early age. He blames everyone but himself for his problems.</p><p></p><p>When I mentioned in a group that I wanted to go no contact with my difficult child I was criticized and several said there was no way they would ever go with contacting their child. Nothing could ever make them do that. Well, maybe they haven't walked in our shoes! They did make me feel like the worse parent on the earth. These are not just children with young adult growing up problems.</p><p></p><p>My breaking point was when my difficult child threatened suicide after I refused to send him money. I was trying to help him, and found everything (once again!) was all lies and they were using my money to party. It's hard to face up to what our kids really are like! After this (he actually went no contact, not me) I started to focus on me and I finally realized this is what he is and nothing I can say or do will ever change that. I still have my sad days, he contacted me a few months ago and he has disappeared again. Learning to detach is a life saver. Focus on the positives in your life.</p><p></p><p>I went through all of the stealing and him helping his friends to steal from me. Once as far as coming home to and empty apartment. Always reported to police. His recent girl friend started harassing me and I called the police, the harassment stopped. I let both of them (and he mother) know that I don't care who you are I will have you arrested . Thank goodness they live in a different state, girl friend is pyscho enough to do drive by shootings lol.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry you have to go through this pain, but I am so happy for you that you are not sitting around feeling so sorry for yourself. I did that lol!!!!! There is a good life after raising a difficult child, but you have to really want it.</p><p>(((hugs and blessings)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 618450, member: 13558"] You are not a monster, you have just reached your limit. My difficult child was difficult from the time he was born and also started using drugs at an early age. He blames everyone but himself for his problems. When I mentioned in a group that I wanted to go no contact with my difficult child I was criticized and several said there was no way they would ever go with contacting their child. Nothing could ever make them do that. Well, maybe they haven't walked in our shoes! They did make me feel like the worse parent on the earth. These are not just children with young adult growing up problems. My breaking point was when my difficult child threatened suicide after I refused to send him money. I was trying to help him, and found everything (once again!) was all lies and they were using my money to party. It's hard to face up to what our kids really are like! After this (he actually went no contact, not me) I started to focus on me and I finally realized this is what he is and nothing I can say or do will ever change that. I still have my sad days, he contacted me a few months ago and he has disappeared again. Learning to detach is a life saver. Focus on the positives in your life. I went through all of the stealing and him helping his friends to steal from me. Once as far as coming home to and empty apartment. Always reported to police. His recent girl friend started harassing me and I called the police, the harassment stopped. I let both of them (and he mother) know that I don't care who you are I will have you arrested . Thank goodness they live in a different state, girl friend is pyscho enough to do drive by shootings lol. I am so sorry you have to go through this pain, but I am so happy for you that you are not sitting around feeling so sorry for yourself. I did that lol!!!!! There is a good life after raising a difficult child, but you have to really want it. (((hugs and blessings))) [/QUOTE]
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