B - Anytime. I would not have made it through my own son's medical maze, much less been able to live with him for as long as I did if it was not for the amazing support of others on this board.
Others will be along in the next day or so. Weekends are slower. I hate to say it, but you will have quite a while AFTER you get to the dose the doctor wants you to be at. It stinks, but it is what it is.
Not sure how much you have been around, reading, but I would like to recommend reading The Explosive Child by Ross Greene and checking out
www.loveandlogic.com . Personally, Love and Logic is my favorite. The website has a LOT to offer and they have books for parents and teachers, books on tape or cd, videos, all of which I have usedand gotten much help from. (and if you are going to buy stuff on Amazon, you can click to it through the site andit helps pay for the site - but you are not at all required to!).
Glad your husband and your ex are on board.
Also, you may be on quite a journey through docs, therapists, etc... If you go to the General Archives, and then to the last page, allllll the way at the bottom there is a thread titled Parent Report or Parent Input (foggy brain can't remember which!). This is just a way to help get all the evaluations, things you see, hopes, dreams, etc... down on paper. It is a format you can share, as necessary, with new and old docs/teachers/whosiwhatsits you meet. That way they can all get to know your child and be on the same page as you.
I found it was easier to work on it in a few chunks of time, rather than all at once. But it made a BIG difference when we had new testing, IEP meetings, etc...
Have a good night!
Susie