Lots of new people I see here and that makes my heart happy! This is such a soft, sweet place for those to land who are struggling like I was and do still. For those of you "old friends" a warm hello to you and I pray that you all are continuing to do well... Update on us: Still married lol...a lot has happened since I was last here. difficult child 1 married and her husband was killed last year in a motorcycle accident. That left her widowed with my two precious grandbabies that are 2 yrs. and 9 mos. old. They are the light of my day!!! difficult child is still a difficult child with her moments, but years of guidance and support have taught me to pick and choose the battles. difficult child 2 is in middle school now. So smart and such a delight most days lol...On Ritalin now and looking for some changes. Just not working for him. He acknowledges it so that is a big plus for me. Have missed you all and please, say hello and update me on what's going on in your life! Blessings!