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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 758511" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>You are not awful for feeling your feelings. I also had a very violent child, and I know exactly how you are feeling! My son tried many times to kill his little sister and I. Serious attempts, not the sort of thing you imagine from a child. We ended up having to move him out of the house when he was 14. Someone was going to end up dead or seriously hurt/maimed if he stayed in our house. </p><p></p><p>I had a method that I used whenever I needed to find some hard to find resource for what my son needed. It involved a notebook, a phone, an outline of what was going on, and many hours. I started with my husband's priest. I explained what was going on briefly and asked if they knew of any programs or anyone who might know of resources to help us. I took notes of where I called, who I spoke with, if I left a message, and any info they could give me. It took me a few days of being on the phone ALLLLL day (up to 7-8 hours a day), but I ended up with the resources we needed. We were also too poor to afford the help he needed but we made too much money to get medicaid.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 758511, member: 1233"] You are not awful for feeling your feelings. I also had a very violent child, and I know exactly how you are feeling! My son tried many times to kill his little sister and I. Serious attempts, not the sort of thing you imagine from a child. We ended up having to move him out of the house when he was 14. Someone was going to end up dead or seriously hurt/maimed if he stayed in our house. I had a method that I used whenever I needed to find some hard to find resource for what my son needed. It involved a notebook, a phone, an outline of what was going on, and many hours. I started with my husband's priest. I explained what was going on briefly and asked if they knew of any programs or anyone who might know of resources to help us. I took notes of where I called, who I spoke with, if I left a message, and any info they could give me. It took me a few days of being on the phone ALLLLL day (up to 7-8 hours a day), but I ended up with the resources we needed. We were also too poor to afford the help he needed but we made too much money to get medicaid. [/QUOTE]
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