I make no bones about the fact that I dont like Tony's family. I just dont. Its a two way street. They dont like me either. It all started from the very beginning when they first set eyes on me because of the way he met me and his prior girlfriend thought they were still dating. That wasnt my fault. He hadnt seen her in well over a year and had broken up with her before he moved away from home but she chose not to believe him. He moved over 3 hours away from home too. Lots of things happened over the years but the first was when not 2 months after we met his father got hurt and paralyzed and that is when his family met me. ALL his family shunned me and told Tony to leave me and that I was horrible and all sorts of nasty things. Some things were said outright to me in the hospital waiting room! Lovely people. Other assorted things happened over the years. His sister tried to tell welfare that I stole her welfare checks and cashed them so she could blame me for her not paying their grandmother back for a car. The family told everyone that I was a stripper from up north...lol. Yeah...me a stripper! They never met me when I weighed less than 190! Now the issues: They have never acknowledged anything that has happened with our boys or with the births of our grandkids. They didnt send a present when Billy or Jamie graduated HS or bootcamp. They didnt send anything when Keyana, Hailie or Michael were born. They didnt send anything when Jamie was married. Now we have received invitations to graduations for nephews for Tonys nephew. We have received invitations to a wedding for a niece. All with RSVP's and those lovely where the people are registered papers. Tacky if you ask me. Also, this niece has been living with this guy for at least 2 years if not longer. I just snorted when Tony opened the invites. Number one, they were addressed to the M family. I am not the M family...lol. We are the M and L family...lol. They should know this by now....its been 26 years. I am probably being petty but this invite came right after Tony and I had a fight over his family. The night before my birthday. He just doesnt get it.