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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 289952" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Sorry about the mention of medications. I didn't know you had considered them and decided against them. I mentioned it because I got so much help, help I didn't even realize I needed until the medications kicked in. We just want you to feel good and find your way through this. If medications are not in your plan, that is fine. I just didn't realize that you had made a decision. I thought maybe you had gotten overwhelmed and just forgotten about it or been unable to handle anything else.</p><p></p><p>Mea maxima culpa. I know they are not for everyone, so I am sorry I pushed them and made you feel uncomfortable.</p><p></p><p>The courts may very well force him to take a paternity test and pay back CS dating back to when he was born, or when he learned difficult child was on the way. Here there are some cases where support was ordered before the child was born if the mother was existing solely on WIC, Food Stamps, welfare and subsidized housing with medical care by medicaid. Part of it was making the judge mad with their attitude, some for dumb things like telling the judge you have other kids you don't pay support for and you refuse to pay no matter what for this kid either. Babymama got to sleep with him, so that is ALL the payment she needed because he is SOO good in bed. (yes, this was in the papers here because it was so dumb a thing to say and it made the judge SO mad.) or else the mom could SHOW that the guy was working somehow because he had a nice house and a fancy car and expensive jewelry, etc... The judge told him to sell the stuff and pay the support or go to jail. The fool took jail and all his stuff had to be sold because he couldn't get out until support and court fees including her lawyer were paid. He also had to pay a fee for being in jail to go to HIS support! Even jail isn't free anymore!) This is RARE, but once in a while it happens. </p><p></p><p>I hope and pray you get a great judge who will order the CS from biofather and give you minimal if any CS and make medicaid or the Department of Juvenile Justice pay for medical. </p><p></p><p>Sorry I upset you, and praying for the best.</p><p></p><p>So I</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 289952, member: 1233"] Sorry about the mention of medications. I didn't know you had considered them and decided against them. I mentioned it because I got so much help, help I didn't even realize I needed until the medications kicked in. We just want you to feel good and find your way through this. If medications are not in your plan, that is fine. I just didn't realize that you had made a decision. I thought maybe you had gotten overwhelmed and just forgotten about it or been unable to handle anything else. Mea maxima culpa. I know they are not for everyone, so I am sorry I pushed them and made you feel uncomfortable. The courts may very well force him to take a paternity test and pay back CS dating back to when he was born, or when he learned difficult child was on the way. Here there are some cases where support was ordered before the child was born if the mother was existing solely on WIC, Food Stamps, welfare and subsidized housing with medical care by medicaid. Part of it was making the judge mad with their attitude, some for dumb things like telling the judge you have other kids you don't pay support for and you refuse to pay no matter what for this kid either. Babymama got to sleep with him, so that is ALL the payment she needed because he is SOO good in bed. (yes, this was in the papers here because it was so dumb a thing to say and it made the judge SO mad.) or else the mom could SHOW that the guy was working somehow because he had a nice house and a fancy car and expensive jewelry, etc... The judge told him to sell the stuff and pay the support or go to jail. The fool took jail and all his stuff had to be sold because he couldn't get out until support and court fees including her lawyer were paid. He also had to pay a fee for being in jail to go to HIS support! Even jail isn't free anymore!) This is RARE, but once in a while it happens. I hope and pray you get a great judge who will order the CS from biofather and give you minimal if any CS and make medicaid or the Department of Juvenile Justice pay for medical. Sorry I upset you, and praying for the best. So I [/QUOTE]
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