OMG!! It was bad enough to have me steamed reading the first post, but your update has me seething. This woman knows your childs Aspergers side, knows how to manipulate. And thats exactly what she did!!!! Another child saw this!!!! I would think if your son accidentally broke his new CD he was so proud of, he'd likely be in tears. WOuldn't MOST kids? All kids most likely!!!
I would get the mother of the other boy to write down what happened with his moms help. I'd then ask difficult child to do the same with you, as he remembers it happening, not being influenced by what was said later on by teacher etc. I'd compare the two stories. I'd then march into that school office and demand this teacher replace the CD and give it publicly to difficult child in class with an apology. This woman seems cracked!!!!
I sure hope he doesn't have her for a teacher again next year?!?!?
Great big hugs to your difficult child. I hear of teachers like this and I wonder why, with all the well trained teachers unable to find work in their field, they are keeping idiots like this on staff. Fire their butts and replace them with the teachers who actually WANT to teach and influence our children in a positive manner.
Has the steam stopped blowing out your ears yet??