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<blockquote data-quote="aeroeng" data-source="post: 347657" data-attributes="member: 6557"><p>The first person to test me for my reading learning disability blamed the whole thing on "Parenting and allowing me to live in a too laxed home environment." It was written down in the report. Yet is was the same parents that fought for me until they found the solutions (which were not easy or cheap). It was the same parents that are responsible for me succeeding anyway.</p><p></p><p>I have seen hundreds of examples of where professionals don't understand where the problem originates from, and then they pin it on the parents, particularly the mother. THIS IS NOT AN INDICATION THAT YOU WERE/ARE A POOR PARENT, IT IS AN INDICATION THAT THEY JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND IT! I feel that the best answer would be poor parenting, because that is the one thing I could change. But unfortunately it is usually something far more complex. Something you have no control over. Letting a child, who can not be comforted, cry it off is not poor parenting. It is doing your best in a frustrating and difficult situation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="aeroeng, post: 347657, member: 6557"] The first person to test me for my reading learning disability blamed the whole thing on "Parenting and allowing me to live in a too laxed home environment." It was written down in the report. Yet is was the same parents that fought for me until they found the solutions (which were not easy or cheap). It was the same parents that are responsible for me succeeding anyway. I have seen hundreds of examples of where professionals don't understand where the problem originates from, and then they pin it on the parents, particularly the mother. THIS IS NOT AN INDICATION THAT YOU WERE/ARE A POOR PARENT, IT IS AN INDICATION THAT THEY JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND IT! I feel that the best answer would be poor parenting, because that is the one thing I could change. But unfortunately it is usually something far more complex. Something you have no control over. Letting a child, who can not be comforted, cry it off is not poor parenting. It is doing your best in a frustrating and difficult situation. [/QUOTE]
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