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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 560901" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Yes I can say no way and certainly I have said I disagree and the advocate drafted a letter stating our upset and tht we want an independent evaluation. Since it's not our home district, our dist has to approve. This district has never allowed anyone because they ARE the experts but in this case he is a totally unique learner. So.....our dist has already said yes and they will look like jerks not to use her...besides its billed back to Q's M.A. </p><p></p><p>The other difference here and why my back is against the wall is because our district is not a member of this special needs co-op district. If.they were they'd have no.choice but to treat him as.their own. But they let our district buy one spot for q. They morally have an obligation, do have to.follow due.process but could say they just don't have anything for him by manipulating data and forming a united front and its ultimately our home district that has responsibility .</p><p></p><p>Well we all know what they (don't ) have to offer him. Lots of.ebd but.... </p><p></p><p>So.the.director of.the.current program said that their CIP program. (What q has.always been in ....a mainly autism program .....is all kids with aspergers and their sun program is all non verbal kids so where are all the smack dab in the middle of the spectrum kids? Are they kidding? . She was so full of double speak. She said were not trying to kick him out..we just want you to look. I said well that's not what you said at the meeting. </p><p></p><p>IC we.did talk about q being a kid who needs an individual program. Our district pays big bucks for q to be there. So....the ranch owner said they did indeed call her! So maybe? ???</p><p></p><p>Tonight we were there and after an awful morning....wow was I proud of him. An 11year old was there with him and the fed and watered the horses. Then they had to use a sledge hammer (my heart! But he did.great!) To break up a.big.wood thing that had rotted. He initiated taking turns and from 5:30 to 9:00 he worked and taught this girl how to do things. They trained one horse and q used the whip ( it never touches the horse they just see it and trot ) and they got.him.to.trot and.stop etc...this girl was only on her second day. She has no special needs and peer.mentors in middle school so was great with Q. </p><p></p><p>THIS is.what they don't get. If.he is.with appropriate kids he does great and this was NOT all fun and games. The.owner has diabetes and arthritis and she can't do many of the jobs now. She needs them to really work. I was really proud of him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 560901, member: 12886"] Yes I can say no way and certainly I have said I disagree and the advocate drafted a letter stating our upset and tht we want an independent evaluation. Since it's not our home district, our dist has to approve. This district has never allowed anyone because they ARE the experts but in this case he is a totally unique learner. So.....our dist has already said yes and they will look like jerks not to use her...besides its billed back to Q's M.A. The other difference here and why my back is against the wall is because our district is not a member of this special needs co-op district. If.they were they'd have no.choice but to treat him as.their own. But they let our district buy one spot for q. They morally have an obligation, do have to.follow due.process but could say they just don't have anything for him by manipulating data and forming a united front and its ultimately our home district that has responsibility . Well we all know what they (don't ) have to offer him. Lots of.ebd but.... So.the.director of.the.current program said that their CIP program. (What q has.always been in ....a mainly autism program .....is all kids with aspergers and their sun program is all non verbal kids so where are all the smack dab in the middle of the spectrum kids? Are they kidding? . She was so full of double speak. She said were not trying to kick him out..we just want you to look. I said well that's not what you said at the meeting. IC we.did talk about q being a kid who needs an individual program. Our district pays big bucks for q to be there. So....the ranch owner said they did indeed call her! So maybe? ??? Tonight we were there and after an awful morning....wow was I proud of him. An 11year old was there with him and the fed and watered the horses. Then they had to use a sledge hammer (my heart! But he did.great!) To break up a.big.wood thing that had rotted. He initiated taking turns and from 5:30 to 9:00 he worked and taught this girl how to do things. They trained one horse and q used the whip ( it never touches the horse they just see it and trot ) and they got.him.to.trot and.stop etc...this girl was only on her second day. She has no special needs and peer.mentors in middle school so was great with Q. THIS is.what they don't get. If.he is.with appropriate kids he does great and this was NOT all fun and games. The.owner has diabetes and arthritis and she can't do many of the jobs now. She needs them to really work. I was really proud of him. [/QUOTE]
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