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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 388098" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Sweetie, HIRE A CLEANING LADY.</p><p> </p><p>I am not joking. in my opinion your husband needs a dose of love and logic from you. List the chores. Tell him which ones are his half of the responsibilities. If he doesn't do them, DON'T YOU DARE DO THEM OR MAKE THE KIDS DO THEM. Hire someone to come do them. Tell husband that the $$ is coming out of his spending $$ or at least out of his $$ on top of what he pays for the bills. Then when she shows up, tell her to call him at X # when she is done with the list you leave her, that he will come and pay her then.</p><p> </p><p>If he refuses to pay her, or won't let her do the work? Pawn the tv and the Wii and use the $$ to pay her. If you each have your own computers, pawn his and keep yours locked up or at work. Ditto the cars/trucks. Disable them when you are not there by taking a part out. even if it is just spark plug wires or the battery. Take it out, lock it up, and put it back in when you want/need to use it. </p><p> </p><p>It is what L&L would have you do with an irresponsible child. in my opinion your husband acts incredibly irresponsibly in a lot of way. With my husband, at least when he wrecked a car by not changing the oil he was embarrassed, mad at himself, willing to work so that the next car did not have that problem, and he followed through for the most part. (With the car, anyway.) My husband still has a lot of irresponsibility in him, but he does apologize when he makes a mistake..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 388098, member: 1233"] Sweetie, HIRE A CLEANING LADY. I am not joking. in my opinion your husband needs a dose of love and logic from you. List the chores. Tell him which ones are his half of the responsibilities. If he doesn't do them, DON'T YOU DARE DO THEM OR MAKE THE KIDS DO THEM. Hire someone to come do them. Tell husband that the $$ is coming out of his spending $$ or at least out of his $$ on top of what he pays for the bills. Then when she shows up, tell her to call him at X # when she is done with the list you leave her, that he will come and pay her then. If he refuses to pay her, or won't let her do the work? Pawn the tv and the Wii and use the $$ to pay her. If you each have your own computers, pawn his and keep yours locked up or at work. Ditto the cars/trucks. Disable them when you are not there by taking a part out. even if it is just spark plug wires or the battery. Take it out, lock it up, and put it back in when you want/need to use it. It is what L&L would have you do with an irresponsible child. in my opinion your husband acts incredibly irresponsibly in a lot of way. With my husband, at least when he wrecked a car by not changing the oil he was embarrassed, mad at himself, willing to work so that the next car did not have that problem, and he followed through for the most part. (With the car, anyway.) My husband still has a lot of irresponsibility in him, but he does apologize when he makes a mistake.. [/QUOTE]
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