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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 67919" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>Tell her you really should not be talking to her about this. Don't lose sight of the fact that HAD HE NOT BEEN DRINKING AND BLOWING OFF WORK his job would not be in jeopardy. </p><p></p><p>Nobody is holding a gun to his head and making him keep that house. When the time comes that he realizes that he cannot play the sympathy card with you, he will more than likely sell. Or who knows? the judge may order him to pay the mortgage while you and your precious boys live there. (well we can dream, right?)</p><p></p><p>If he DOES lose his job, and CAN'T give you money for the boys, he can join MY dex in the steel hotel.</p><p></p><p>I hear that you are mad fro cramming into mom & dad's place. Lots of things are going to make you mad. Get mad at him! That is good; it is one of the steps of grieving.</p><p></p><p>And as far as I am concerned, he & his mom deserve eachother right now. </p><p></p><p>Now. Take everyone's advice and get that restraining order. Hit your meetings and detach. Be there for your kids and be strong enough to draw boundaries to your parents. This is a long process, but many of us have been there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 67919, member: 3647"] Tell her you really should not be talking to her about this. Don't lose sight of the fact that HAD HE NOT BEEN DRINKING AND BLOWING OFF WORK his job would not be in jeopardy. Nobody is holding a gun to his head and making him keep that house. When the time comes that he realizes that he cannot play the sympathy card with you, he will more than likely sell. Or who knows? the judge may order him to pay the mortgage while you and your precious boys live there. (well we can dream, right?) If he DOES lose his job, and CAN'T give you money for the boys, he can join MY dex in the steel hotel. I hear that you are mad fro cramming into mom & dad's place. Lots of things are going to make you mad. Get mad at him! That is good; it is one of the steps of grieving. And as far as I am concerned, he & his mom deserve eachother right now. Now. Take everyone's advice and get that restraining order. Hit your meetings and detach. Be there for your kids and be strong enough to draw boundaries to your parents. This is a long process, but many of us have been there. [/QUOTE]
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