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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 68070" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>The hardest thing when faced with this is that you have all these legal loose ends to tend to, and that is the last thing you want to do, because you are hurting. I know. But take it from the experienced, you are going to want to get these things taken care of so they don't bite you in the behind later.</p><p></p><p>~Let landlord know that you are moving. Get your name off the lease.</p><p></p><p>~Joint bank accounts? Get YOUR money out of them.</p><p></p><p>~Kids' accounts? Close them out, reopen them in another bank so that husband cannot access them.</p><p></p><p>~Talk to lawyer about an order of protection. Ask him about mandatory alcohol treatment for husband before he can visit children. Ask for supervised visitation.</p><p></p><p>~Let schools know that husband is not allowed to be there.</p><p></p><p>~ Get child support going ASAP. Make sure that him including the kids on his insurance is included.</p><p></p><p></p><p>This kinds of stuff bites. Big time. It is a necessary evil. It is called CYOA.</p><p></p><p>One last thing. If you cannot find alternate living arrangements before you move in with mom & dad, try to keep in mind that it is only temporary. And try very hard to remember that as much as they are trying to run things, they have your best interests at heart. Set your boundaries early and stand firm.</p><p></p><p>Your family is in my prayers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 68070, member: 3647"] The hardest thing when faced with this is that you have all these legal loose ends to tend to, and that is the last thing you want to do, because you are hurting. I know. But take it from the experienced, you are going to want to get these things taken care of so they don't bite you in the behind later. ~Let landlord know that you are moving. Get your name off the lease. ~Joint bank accounts? Get YOUR money out of them. ~Kids' accounts? Close them out, reopen them in another bank so that husband cannot access them. ~Talk to lawyer about an order of protection. Ask him about mandatory alcohol treatment for husband before he can visit children. Ask for supervised visitation. ~Let schools know that husband is not allowed to be there. ~ Get child support going ASAP. Make sure that him including the kids on his insurance is included. This kinds of stuff bites. Big time. It is a necessary evil. It is called CYOA. One last thing. If you cannot find alternate living arrangements before you move in with mom & dad, try to keep in mind that it is only temporary. And try very hard to remember that as much as they are trying to run things, they have your best interests at heart. Set your boundaries early and stand firm. Your family is in my prayers. [/QUOTE]
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