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He Doesn't Have a Clue...
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 298095" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Sweetie, I am sorry you are still in the midst of all the drama. someday you will end up seeing that he is NEVER going to buck his family and do the hard work that parenting a difficult child requires. </p><p></p><p>Your husband knows how you feel. At some level he knows you are right. But he will ALWAYS and FOREVER blame you for whatever happens from this point on.</p><p></p><p>Either you "made" him give up his child, or you "drove" difficult child to this stuff, or any of a million other things. Just where do you thing difficult child LEARNED that it is never his fault? He learned it from his dad.</p><p></p><p>This entire family is so mentally ill it is scary. I have already expressed the opinion that your husband sounds as mentally ill as difficult child does. </p><p></p><p>The only reason you are there is because he is still getting mileage out of making you the "bad guy". If the courts send difficult child to juvie or an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) or difficult child ends up in boarding school or foster care it WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR FAULT IN YOUR husband'S EYES.</p><p></p><p>I hope at some point soon you can rescue yourself and your children from this mentally ill family that does not want your help, caring, common sense, sanity or love.</p><p></p><p>Why do you insist on staying when your husband does not even value your possessions enough to keep them away from his destructive vicious scary sociopath of a son?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 298095, member: 1233"] Sweetie, I am sorry you are still in the midst of all the drama. someday you will end up seeing that he is NEVER going to buck his family and do the hard work that parenting a difficult child requires. Your husband knows how you feel. At some level he knows you are right. But he will ALWAYS and FOREVER blame you for whatever happens from this point on. Either you "made" him give up his child, or you "drove" difficult child to this stuff, or any of a million other things. Just where do you thing difficult child LEARNED that it is never his fault? He learned it from his dad. This entire family is so mentally ill it is scary. I have already expressed the opinion that your husband sounds as mentally ill as difficult child does. The only reason you are there is because he is still getting mileage out of making you the "bad guy". If the courts send difficult child to juvie or an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) or difficult child ends up in boarding school or foster care it WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR FAULT IN YOUR husband'S EYES. I hope at some point soon you can rescue yourself and your children from this mentally ill family that does not want your help, caring, common sense, sanity or love. Why do you insist on staying when your husband does not even value your possessions enough to keep them away from his destructive vicious scary sociopath of a son? [/QUOTE]
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