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He found his birthfamily. No wonder we don't count.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 226738" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>My son isn't the type to be just doing life, ignoring his family. He is very meticulous and brilliant and everything he does is on purpose. He cut us out on purpose. I do still think it has something to do with his cult-like church, but he was having his own issues with us before that. It could also be that his half-sistsers are NOT atheists. His birthmother was, but she isn't on his Facebook. Also, I don't have access to his Facebook. He would never allow me to join. You can see anyone's friends on Facebook, and I recognized the girls (even though they were so young in the photos I saw so many years ago). I also remember their names. He had both of them there. And the little one looked exactly like him. There is no mistaking her identity at all. She always did look like him. I have to say, I have hardly ever seen such an adorable girl...lol. She isn't beautiful, but she is so CUTE and looks like she has so much personality, and so does my son. He just doesn't let us see it anymore. </p><p>I have always encouraged my kids to search for their roots. I feel adopted kids need to know where they came from. I dont' believe that it doesn't interfer with their lives. This wouldn't bother me AT ALL except that he is connecting with them and refusing to even speak to us. I would love to ask him how it went to meet them, what they're like, if they're coming to the US and if we can meet them and hug them, but I don't bother. He will not sit with us. He won't talk to us. I think his wife is a big influence against us, and he, at 31, lets her influence him because it's what he wants to do. Oh, well.</p><p>Just thought I'd share. We leave tomorrow to see my other two grown kids and my precious, adorable, lovebug grandson. Trust me, that sweet little face and smile makes up for everything. He is everyone's precious angel.</p><p>So...hope you all had a Merry Christmas <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> We have so far--visited other relatives on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day!!! </p><p>I love you all. You are all so great.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 226738, member: 1550"] My son isn't the type to be just doing life, ignoring his family. He is very meticulous and brilliant and everything he does is on purpose. He cut us out on purpose. I do still think it has something to do with his cult-like church, but he was having his own issues with us before that. It could also be that his half-sistsers are NOT atheists. His birthmother was, but she isn't on his Facebook. Also, I don't have access to his Facebook. He would never allow me to join. You can see anyone's friends on Facebook, and I recognized the girls (even though they were so young in the photos I saw so many years ago). I also remember their names. He had both of them there. And the little one looked exactly like him. There is no mistaking her identity at all. She always did look like him. I have to say, I have hardly ever seen such an adorable girl...lol. She isn't beautiful, but she is so CUTE and looks like she has so much personality, and so does my son. He just doesn't let us see it anymore. I have always encouraged my kids to search for their roots. I feel adopted kids need to know where they came from. I dont' believe that it doesn't interfer with their lives. This wouldn't bother me AT ALL except that he is connecting with them and refusing to even speak to us. I would love to ask him how it went to meet them, what they're like, if they're coming to the US and if we can meet them and hug them, but I don't bother. He will not sit with us. He won't talk to us. I think his wife is a big influence against us, and he, at 31, lets her influence him because it's what he wants to do. Oh, well. Just thought I'd share. We leave tomorrow to see my other two grown kids and my precious, adorable, lovebug grandson. Trust me, that sweet little face and smile makes up for everything. He is everyone's precious angel. So...hope you all had a Merry Christmas :) We have so far--visited other relatives on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day!!! I love you all. You are all so great. [/QUOTE]
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