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He found his birthfamily. No wonder we don't count.
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<blockquote data-quote="ThreeShadows" data-source="post: 226762" data-attributes="member: 6370"><p>Oh, MWM! This is a huge open sore for us. When I was trying to understand why difficult child 2 found it so easy to move in with other families (who always knew better than we did) his MSW told us that he had been working for quite some time with a professional couple who had adopted a newborn boy from a very empoverished family. When this boy turned 14 he asked to meet his bio family. The adoptive family obliged and the boy decided to move in with bio mom and siblings. That made me feel like a glorified baby sitter. MSW said that they had been a "bad match" and we were in the same situation because both difficult children had NO interest in education (husband was National Merit Scholar).</p><p> </p><p>I know of another situation where biomom decided to keep one twin and adopt the other out, the most cruel decision! Adoptive dad is a Maine legislator, his wife told me her son had started to threaten her. Last I heard, through my difficult child 1, this boy left home and is living with biotwin.</p><p> </p><p>Did your son cuddle with you when he was 6? Did he come to you for comfort when he got hurt? Did you feel good making it all better?</p><p>We can only do the best we can and Fate will decide the rest. Where would your son be now if you hadn't been in the trenches fighting to give him a better life, a better education?</p><p> </p><p>You have known the sacrifices of a true parent, God willing, your son will see the light.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ThreeShadows, post: 226762, member: 6370"] Oh, MWM! This is a huge open sore for us. When I was trying to understand why difficult child 2 found it so easy to move in with other families (who always knew better than we did) his MSW told us that he had been working for quite some time with a professional couple who had adopted a newborn boy from a very empoverished family. When this boy turned 14 he asked to meet his bio family. The adoptive family obliged and the boy decided to move in with bio mom and siblings. That made me feel like a glorified baby sitter. MSW said that they had been a "bad match" and we were in the same situation because both difficult children had NO interest in education (husband was National Merit Scholar). I know of another situation where biomom decided to keep one twin and adopt the other out, the most cruel decision! Adoptive dad is a Maine legislator, his wife told me her son had started to threaten her. Last I heard, through my difficult child 1, this boy left home and is living with biotwin. Did your son cuddle with you when he was 6? Did he come to you for comfort when he got hurt? Did you feel good making it all better? We can only do the best we can and Fate will decide the rest. Where would your son be now if you hadn't been in the trenches fighting to give him a better life, a better education? You have known the sacrifices of a true parent, God willing, your son will see the light. [/QUOTE]
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