So we heard today our son is moving back into the sober house from the rehab. That is a few days earlier than we expected. I am not sure why... whether they and he felt he was ready or if they needed his bed. I feel very unclear still about what exactly happened and how he is doing. I did have a brief text convo with him today where he said he was doing pretty good and looking forward to getting back into the swing of things. So my hope is that he is doing well.... I just wish he could find a job. I think that is key!!!! Nancy I am so glad your difficult child is doing well and wrote you that letter. I wish my son was more open to us.... it just kills me that he is so closed around us. I too wish my son would show us his warm, funny, caring side. We just are not there yet. But I am thankful that he seems to be ok and is hopefully moving forward. I kind of wantmore information but maybe it is better if i don't have it. I keep having to remember that this is his journey and I don't need to know every stop he makes.