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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 667161" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>His main diagnosis is PTSD, but he has also others; dissociative disorder, moderate/severe depression and he had bout of conversion disorder. Traits of other disorders have also been speculated such as Borderline (BPD), Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), anxiety disorders etc. He also isn't quite neurotypical and has sensory issues, has always been very hyperactive and impulsive and has had issues with executive functions. He is on Lexapro and Buspar regularily and takes Atarax or very small dose Seroquel prn for anxiety and sleep. Or that was how it was till few weeks back, I do not know if there has been medication changes due current situation, because he is not talking to us and people who are keeping us updated may not have info about that type of things if Ache is not telling them. </p><p></p><p>Ache had crisis requiring hospitalisation last fall and after that we did find him a psychiatrist to manage medication close to where we live because Ache's lifestyle is more or less nomadic and close to us was the best bet for longer term provider. However it is more than likely Ache's employer has forced him to some local psychiatrist, but we do not know for sure. He continued his prolonged exposure therapy again late last spring after two year break and with a therapist close to his current city. However I do not know if he still attends. He has also been seeing same sport psychologist a long time and he has been great help especially skill wise, but he has been out of country some time now and Ache has stopped taking his calls or answering his messages at least in any meaningful way. Sport psychologist will be back home late this week and plans to try to get Ache's city early next week to meet him face to face to discuss things.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>This is a good question. He is angry and resentful towards me, hubby and Joy for something in particular and from his point of view I guess it is a very good reason. But he has seemed very angry and resentful also with others with whom he does not have a good reason, like his sport psychologist or many of his friends. He has made comments how his friends have proven to be two-faced and false, how people do not see the truth etc. </p><p></p><p>By behaving like this he is making himself enormous professional and personal harm and he still maintains he wants to reach his dreams and do well in his profession. His behaviour is senseless and shows total lack of self preservation. His peer group tends to encourage rather homogeneous behaviour at least in public and he is not heeding that right now. Not even publicly that well. </p><p></p><p>Instead of his real friends and peers he seems to have attached himself to some public figures he admires. He has expressed that these figures understand him better, understand the truth, are the real deal and so on instead of people he actually knows. If he would be 13 or 14 year old girl, this type of idolising would be rather typical, but for someone his age, and when it is new thing, it is very worrisome. He isn't just listening their music or something like that but he watches every video and reads everything he can find from them and even their entourage, comments their public social media like they would be his friends and seems to take their public image as 'real.'</p><p></p><p>Also in other ways he comes off as very young or someone with very limited cognitive ability right now. It is bit better at some days, but very visible at others. And this is not typical for him, not at all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 667161, member: 14557"] His main diagnosis is PTSD, but he has also others; dissociative disorder, moderate/severe depression and he had bout of conversion disorder. Traits of other disorders have also been speculated such as Borderline (BPD), Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), anxiety disorders etc. He also isn't quite neurotypical and has sensory issues, has always been very hyperactive and impulsive and has had issues with executive functions. He is on Lexapro and Buspar regularily and takes Atarax or very small dose Seroquel prn for anxiety and sleep. Or that was how it was till few weeks back, I do not know if there has been medication changes due current situation, because he is not talking to us and people who are keeping us updated may not have info about that type of things if Ache is not telling them. Ache had crisis requiring hospitalisation last fall and after that we did find him a psychiatrist to manage medication close to where we live because Ache's lifestyle is more or less nomadic and close to us was the best bet for longer term provider. However it is more than likely Ache's employer has forced him to some local psychiatrist, but we do not know for sure. He continued his prolonged exposure therapy again late last spring after two year break and with a therapist close to his current city. However I do not know if he still attends. He has also been seeing same sport psychologist a long time and he has been great help especially skill wise, but he has been out of country some time now and Ache has stopped taking his calls or answering his messages at least in any meaningful way. Sport psychologist will be back home late this week and plans to try to get Ache's city early next week to meet him face to face to discuss things. This is a good question. He is angry and resentful towards me, hubby and Joy for something in particular and from his point of view I guess it is a very good reason. But he has seemed very angry and resentful also with others with whom he does not have a good reason, like his sport psychologist or many of his friends. He has made comments how his friends have proven to be two-faced and false, how people do not see the truth etc. By behaving like this he is making himself enormous professional and personal harm and he still maintains he wants to reach his dreams and do well in his profession. His behaviour is senseless and shows total lack of self preservation. His peer group tends to encourage rather homogeneous behaviour at least in public and he is not heeding that right now. Not even publicly that well. Instead of his real friends and peers he seems to have attached himself to some public figures he admires. He has expressed that these figures understand him better, understand the truth, are the real deal and so on instead of people he actually knows. If he would be 13 or 14 year old girl, this type of idolising would be rather typical, but for someone his age, and when it is new thing, it is very worrisome. He isn't just listening their music or something like that but he watches every video and reads everything he can find from them and even their entourage, comments their public social media like they would be his friends and seems to take their public image as 'real.' Also in other ways he comes off as very young or someone with very limited cognitive ability right now. It is bit better at some days, but very visible at others. And this is not typical for him, not at all. [/QUOTE]
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