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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 667210" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Suzir, you and Ache have been with me all day.</p><p></p><p>At the end of day, Suzir, you have to take care of yourself. I do not know if it is helpful or hurtful to continue to speculate what could be going on. He has professionals around him that are attending to him. It is you who we care about here. That you take care of yourself and the rest of your family. Ache must find a way to work this through, to work this out.</p><p></p><p>But you are so intellectual, conceptual, I feel you will not rest until you feel <em>you understand.</em> Even though you may not find a way to do so. And if this is so, you will have to find a way to let it go. I have.</p><p></p><p>Ache sounds like he shares some of what my son is like. With me my son is open with what he is thinking. I think. He tells me too much. It scares me. It scares him. He is scared.</p><p></p><p>How scared do you think Ache is? You seem scared, that seems clear to me. Is he? Is he clear, that that it is he who is afraid, and not just you, for him?</p><p></p><p>Do you really feel his bosses are aware of his suicidal ideation?</p><p></p><p>What in him, do you think, is the primary driver of this self-destructive behavior? Do <em>you think </em>it is psychosis or anxiety or trauma-based? What do <em>you think</em> is the primary driver?</p><p></p><p>Could it be something that he is choosing?</p><p></p><p>Is he exploring the limits of his situation? Does he feel constrained by his situation?</p><p></p><p>Is it something about authority? Or rebellion?</p><p></p><p>Does he lack self-control or do you feel he is in-control?</p><p></p><p>Do you think he truly understands the potential consequences to himself?</p><p></p><p>Could he be doing this deliberately to test others, to bring forth the consequences he most fears? Is it a test of courage of manhood? Is it risk-seeking?</p><p></p><p>Suzir, I hope you check in before you go to sleep. Tell us how you are doing, please. And what you are doing for yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 667210, member: 18958"] Suzir, you and Ache have been with me all day. At the end of day, Suzir, you have to take care of yourself. I do not know if it is helpful or hurtful to continue to speculate what could be going on. He has professionals around him that are attending to him. It is you who we care about here. That you take care of yourself and the rest of your family. Ache must find a way to work this through, to work this out. But you are so intellectual, conceptual, I feel you will not rest until you feel [I]you understand.[/I] Even though you may not find a way to do so. And if this is so, you will have to find a way to let it go. I have. Ache sounds like he shares some of what my son is like. With me my son is open with what he is thinking. I think. He tells me too much. It scares me. It scares him. He is scared. How scared do you think Ache is? You seem scared, that seems clear to me. Is he? Is he clear, that that it is he who is afraid, and not just you, for him? Do you really feel his bosses are aware of his suicidal ideation? What in him, do you think, is the primary driver of this self-destructive behavior? Do [I]you think [/I]it is psychosis or anxiety or trauma-based? What do [I]you think[/I] is the primary driver? Could it be something that he is choosing? Is he exploring the limits of his situation? Does he feel constrained by his situation? Is it something about authority? Or rebellion? Does he lack self-control or do you feel he is in-control? Do you think he truly understands the potential consequences to himself? Could he be doing this deliberately to test others, to bring forth the consequences he most fears? Is it a test of courage of manhood? Is it risk-seeking? Suzir, I hope you check in before you go to sleep. Tell us how you are doing, please. And what you are doing for yourself. [/QUOTE]
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