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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 470570"><p>I am working on trying to move. I have the tentative date of June. The first step is husband getting a second job so we can save up the money. (That would be another long post in itself.) I'm just so scared that it might not happen. Scared if it does happen. Just plain scared all a round. We stayed here so long because difficult child 1 does have a better chance of surviving short frequent visits than the long visits in the summer. If I ran he would find me. Then it would be worse. </p><p></p><p>The extreme situation I was referring to is no phone, no neighbors, no electricity, no cell phone coverage, no running water, lots of exposure to the elements. I go to pick difficult child 1 up from visitation in a few min. I'll post about how he is doing.</p><p></p><p>DV shelter said to encourage him to follow the court order. That cps will look at him as the problem if he runs. </p><p></p><p>psychiatrist is going to call me tomorrow afternoon. The nurse called back, but didn't know the answer to my question. </p><p></p><p>The court appointed third part that facilitates the visitation said to write a note to X explaining that difficult child 1 is scared. Then X would modify his plans.</p><p></p><p>My own mother is trying to tell me that I'm influencing difficult child 1. That he is picking up on my fears. His story of why he is scared this time is very much like a story I told her of something that happened when I was married to X. They are the same because its the same person who abused both of us. I do not tell difficult child 1 any details of the marriage between X and I; even when difficult child 1 has asked. </p><p></p><p>She just can't stand the pain of watching this and is trying to bury her head in the sand. </p><p></p><p>This is very painful to watch. </p><p></p><p>Thank-you all for helping me carry this burden.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 470570"] I am working on trying to move. I have the tentative date of June. The first step is husband getting a second job so we can save up the money. (That would be another long post in itself.) I'm just so scared that it might not happen. Scared if it does happen. Just plain scared all a round. We stayed here so long because difficult child 1 does have a better chance of surviving short frequent visits than the long visits in the summer. If I ran he would find me. Then it would be worse. The extreme situation I was referring to is no phone, no neighbors, no electricity, no cell phone coverage, no running water, lots of exposure to the elements. I go to pick difficult child 1 up from visitation in a few min. I'll post about how he is doing. DV shelter said to encourage him to follow the court order. That cps will look at him as the problem if he runs. psychiatrist is going to call me tomorrow afternoon. The nurse called back, but didn't know the answer to my question. The court appointed third part that facilitates the visitation said to write a note to X explaining that difficult child 1 is scared. Then X would modify his plans. My own mother is trying to tell me that I'm influencing difficult child 1. That he is picking up on my fears. His story of why he is scared this time is very much like a story I told her of something that happened when I was married to X. They are the same because its the same person who abused both of us. I do not tell difficult child 1 any details of the marriage between X and I; even when difficult child 1 has asked. She just can't stand the pain of watching this and is trying to bury her head in the sand. This is very painful to watch. Thank-you all for helping me carry this burden. [/QUOTE]
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