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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 146645" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hon, he's a drug addict. He will not quit, no matter how much you love him or how hard you try (and I think you deserve kudos for your efforts) until HE wants to quit. IF he wants to quit. You can't fix him. For a mother, this is a terrifying realization, but he's not a child or teenager anymore and it has to come from him. You wanted to give him one last chance and you did. in my opinion, yes, let him go back to jail. And don't let him play you again. He has advantages others don't have yet he is choosing this and it's NOT your fault in any way. </p><p>I would join N/A and go to meetings every night, if necessary. You will get a lot of support, help, and great advice, plus shoulders to cry on. Once you realize that you are powerless over him and that you didn't cause this, you can maybe let him find his own way out of this mess. Because nobody can safe him but HIM. PLease...go to N/A. (((Hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 146645, member: 1550"] Hon, he's a drug addict. He will not quit, no matter how much you love him or how hard you try (and I think you deserve kudos for your efforts) until HE wants to quit. IF he wants to quit. You can't fix him. For a mother, this is a terrifying realization, but he's not a child or teenager anymore and it has to come from him. You wanted to give him one last chance and you did. in my opinion, yes, let him go back to jail. And don't let him play you again. He has advantages others don't have yet he is choosing this and it's NOT your fault in any way. I would join N/A and go to meetings every night, if necessary. You will get a lot of support, help, and great advice, plus shoulders to cry on. Once you realize that you are powerless over him and that you didn't cause this, you can maybe let him find his own way out of this mess. Because nobody can safe him but HIM. PLease...go to N/A. (((Hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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