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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 95494" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>I've never understood this, perhaps because I was away when you explained why - but how come YOU moved out of the house, when you still have a dependent child in your care? AND the dog? OK, he's got the dog but I gather she goes with the house, but still, I do think this is a bit much. I mean, this other woman has brought in her kids, so where are they sleeping? Who is in your daughter's room? How will she feel?</p><p></p><p>And my own thoughts - by letting him do this (ie move back home AND move in the new girlfriend and her kids) he is now playing happy families as if you have endorsed it, by moving out to give him the space.</p><p></p><p>I do feel the sooner you sort out and rationalise all the assets the better, but he won't be in any hurry if he is in the house.</p><p></p><p>So if you've been feeling this way too and putting it down to resentment and jealousy - it's not. I have no reason to be resentful or jealous, and I feel this way.</p><p></p><p>What would he do if you said you had decided to move back home? Not that I'm suggesting you do, but I do wonder - what would he do? I suspect he'd be playing his mind games and emotional blackmail in earnest.</p><p></p><p>This is not nice. He hasn't an ounce of sensitivity anywhere in his body. And a message to HP - this is no way to win the affections of your child and get her stamp of approval on your infidelity, buster.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there, sister. You are way better than him. Or his new squeeze.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 95494, member: 1991"] I've never understood this, perhaps because I was away when you explained why - but how come YOU moved out of the house, when you still have a dependent child in your care? AND the dog? OK, he's got the dog but I gather she goes with the house, but still, I do think this is a bit much. I mean, this other woman has brought in her kids, so where are they sleeping? Who is in your daughter's room? How will she feel? And my own thoughts - by letting him do this (ie move back home AND move in the new girlfriend and her kids) he is now playing happy families as if you have endorsed it, by moving out to give him the space. I do feel the sooner you sort out and rationalise all the assets the better, but he won't be in any hurry if he is in the house. So if you've been feeling this way too and putting it down to resentment and jealousy - it's not. I have no reason to be resentful or jealous, and I feel this way. What would he do if you said you had decided to move back home? Not that I'm suggesting you do, but I do wonder - what would he do? I suspect he'd be playing his mind games and emotional blackmail in earnest. This is not nice. He hasn't an ounce of sensitivity anywhere in his body. And a message to HP - this is no way to win the affections of your child and get her stamp of approval on your infidelity, buster. Hang in there, sister. You are way better than him. Or his new squeeze. Marg [/QUOTE]
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