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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 95873" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Karen, you said, "Marg, to answer some of your questions, they aren't living at the house. HP And girlfriend are just playing house every evening there together and including her daughter sometimes."</p><p></p><p>That is SICK! And it confirms what Star said (and you also have seen) - he is playing house, he is trying to make-believe Happy Families. I firmly agree with you, this should not be happening in what was your marital home. It is just plain wrong. Does this mean YOU can go to the house and invite a boyfriend along? Or maybe invite Jill and her hubby to a dinner party with you there? Seriously do it. If he objects (and he would have a lot less to object to) then call him on it. Or maybe just suggest to him that it would be good for you to have your own dinner parties where you can have more space than in the flat which really is just big enough for you and easy child, not really suitable for sinner parties.</p><p></p><p>He'll be redecorating soon. Does anyone want to take bets on how long before he remodels the kitchen or the bathroom? Of course, this wouldn't be his idea... but would their relationship survive redecorating? It certainly tests any relationship, let alone such a starry-eyed fantasy as this.</p><p></p><p>And he insists easy child is fine with this - by whose stretch of imagination? This man listens to nobody and nothing except his own ego. He's trying to clumsily woo easy child and is making a total ham-fisted mess of it. And she sounds as shrewd as you. I'm sorry you both have to go through this, but you both will be stronger as a result.</p><p></p><p>Definitely time to move on, but also definitely, time to protect your own assets and share in assets.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 95873, member: 1991"] Karen, you said, "Marg, to answer some of your questions, they aren't living at the house. HP And girlfriend are just playing house every evening there together and including her daughter sometimes." That is SICK! And it confirms what Star said (and you also have seen) - he is playing house, he is trying to make-believe Happy Families. I firmly agree with you, this should not be happening in what was your marital home. It is just plain wrong. Does this mean YOU can go to the house and invite a boyfriend along? Or maybe invite Jill and her hubby to a dinner party with you there? Seriously do it. If he objects (and he would have a lot less to object to) then call him on it. Or maybe just suggest to him that it would be good for you to have your own dinner parties where you can have more space than in the flat which really is just big enough for you and easy child, not really suitable for sinner parties. He'll be redecorating soon. Does anyone want to take bets on how long before he remodels the kitchen or the bathroom? Of course, this wouldn't be his idea... but would their relationship survive redecorating? It certainly tests any relationship, let alone such a starry-eyed fantasy as this. And he insists easy child is fine with this - by whose stretch of imagination? This man listens to nobody and nothing except his own ego. He's trying to clumsily woo easy child and is making a total ham-fisted mess of it. And she sounds as shrewd as you. I'm sorry you both have to go through this, but you both will be stronger as a result. Definitely time to move on, but also definitely, time to protect your own assets and share in assets. Marg [/QUOTE]
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