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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 363247" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>We are going to do our level best to just stay away from him and make our relationships with my parents about us and them, not about him. </p><p></p><p>He WILL drag my name into it. He will do all he can to make it look like we have calculated all of this to hurt my mom and dad. I am quite sure she will be furious with me. It is her pattern. I do not have to give in to it though. Not at all.</p><p></p><p>I will make an effort to let her know that it isn't about her, but about the stunning way he just explodes at us out of the blue. It has been his pattern for years, and my mother has done amazing things to rationalize it to herself and to make husband and I accept things.</p><p></p><p>Now she has to learn new ways also. I am quite sure that this week won't be fun at all. But I am determined to not cave, not be dramatic, and not waver. </p><p></p><p>Thanks to all of you. You are wonderful.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 363247, member: 1233"] We are going to do our level best to just stay away from him and make our relationships with my parents about us and them, not about him. He WILL drag my name into it. He will do all he can to make it look like we have calculated all of this to hurt my mom and dad. I am quite sure she will be furious with me. It is her pattern. I do not have to give in to it though. Not at all. I will make an effort to let her know that it isn't about her, but about the stunning way he just explodes at us out of the blue. It has been his pattern for years, and my mother has done amazing things to rationalize it to herself and to make husband and I accept things. Now she has to learn new ways also. I am quite sure that this week won't be fun at all. But I am determined to not cave, not be dramatic, and not waver. Thanks to all of you. You are wonderful. [/QUOTE]
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