so I went to the shelter today for the "team" meeting with difficult child I, the shelter warden, the CMO worker and the in-home therapist. difficult child I was once again rude to the female CMO worker and me. He is digging his heels in about his "lifestyle choices". difficult child I was doing fine with shelter life until one of the female workers told difficult child I to pull his sagging pants up (which is a rule) when difficult child I refused she took away 25 points. He apparantly verbally expressed his dismay. Then in the meeting the shelter warden re-enforced the rule and difficult child I basically told him, "then you can keep taking my points" sigh................grrrr....................... this child is so stubborn and bull headed, he has no idea how much he is going to regrett these choices some day!