I have three beautiful children ages 14,5,and 3.My 14 year old is by my first marriage which ended 9 years ago.My current husband when he came along a couple of years later my daughter just loved him and he has always loved her.She used to be in soccer and we went to every game no matter what.She always acted as though she were afraid of her father and she and I were always very close and she would tell me everything that was going on with her even when she would be at her dads.
Fast forward to when she"s 9 and her dad has started to buy her by getting her her own Iphone and taking her on expensive trips and Ipods and telling her her brother and sister are not her brother and sister and scared her by jumping down her thoat over her telling me something he did which made me get on to him and she wont confide in me and she acts now as though he's the greatest and acts as though she doesn't respect me or her step-dad or that she doesn't even like her brother and sister which she used to.
My ex and I have joint custody and I drive 3 days a week 28 miles 3 days a week to take her back and forth
to the bus and this year it will be double that as my other two will start school.I've tried to convince her to go to school where I live but her concern was for her dad .He is not remarried and does not have any other children.I explained to her everything I will have to do to get her to and from school and she didn't care.When she sees me out at stores she barely speeks .It cuts me like a knife the way she is with me.I've always tried keeping her away from the battles I've had with her father,but sadly he has not.Now It looks like he has what he has tried to do all along turn her against me.I don't know what to do to get her to understand that all he has done was not for her best interest or that he cared for her but quite the opposite.I don't want to make things worse.
Fast forward to when she"s 9 and her dad has started to buy her by getting her her own Iphone and taking her on expensive trips and Ipods and telling her her brother and sister are not her brother and sister and scared her by jumping down her thoat over her telling me something he did which made me get on to him and she wont confide in me and she acts now as though he's the greatest and acts as though she doesn't respect me or her step-dad or that she doesn't even like her brother and sister which she used to.
My ex and I have joint custody and I drive 3 days a week 28 miles 3 days a week to take her back and forth
to the bus and this year it will be double that as my other two will start school.I've tried to convince her to go to school where I live but her concern was for her dad .He is not remarried and does not have any other children.I explained to her everything I will have to do to get her to and from school and she didn't care.When she sees me out at stores she barely speeks .It cuts me like a knife the way she is with me.I've always tried keeping her away from the battles I've had with her father,but sadly he has not.Now It looks like he has what he has tried to do all along turn her against me.I don't know what to do to get her to understand that all he has done was not for her best interest or that he cared for her but quite the opposite.I don't want to make things worse.