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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 601428" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am very sorry she is doing this. The others are right - you need to ignore her fb and everything she says and does on it. If she is not in your home and is an adult, you need to figure out a way to be at peace with letting her go her own way. </p><p></p><p>As she is claiming abuse, she clearly does not want your support. I would cut all financial things you are doing for her until such time as she is not abusive to you on fb or anywhere else. You cannot claim to hate someone or that they abused you and then expect them to give you a phone, financial support or any other good things. All that you do when you give her something is to reward her bad behavior. Let her find her own solutions that do not involve you, your financial support, homes you own or rent, vehicles you own or hlp wtih the costs of, etc.... Let her pay for this herself if she thinks you are so awful.</p><p></p><p>This is a basic life lesson and in my opinion one she needs to learn asap. At one point we lived in an area with CPS that took kids at the drop of a hat and many kids used this as a way to make their parents do what they want. I told mine that they were free to report abuse but they needed to have bags packed because they would leave my home and not return if they made a false accusation. It worked fairly well and was one problem we did not have to cope with. </p><p></p><p>I know it hurts and I am very sorry that you are dealing with this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 601428, member: 1233"] I am very sorry she is doing this. The others are right - you need to ignore her fb and everything she says and does on it. If she is not in your home and is an adult, you need to figure out a way to be at peace with letting her go her own way. As she is claiming abuse, she clearly does not want your support. I would cut all financial things you are doing for her until such time as she is not abusive to you on fb or anywhere else. You cannot claim to hate someone or that they abused you and then expect them to give you a phone, financial support or any other good things. All that you do when you give her something is to reward her bad behavior. Let her find her own solutions that do not involve you, your financial support, homes you own or rent, vehicles you own or hlp wtih the costs of, etc.... Let her pay for this herself if she thinks you are so awful. This is a basic life lesson and in my opinion one she needs to learn asap. At one point we lived in an area with CPS that took kids at the drop of a hat and many kids used this as a way to make their parents do what they want. I told mine that they were free to report abuse but they needed to have bags packed because they would leave my home and not return if they made a false accusation. It worked fairly well and was one problem we did not have to cope with. I know it hurts and I am very sorry that you are dealing with this. [/QUOTE]
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