mookie1975
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Hello everyone. My name is Amy and I am a recently divorced 32 year old mom of three and I am expecting my fourth. My oldest is 8 and is a boy, I have two girls ages 5 years and 10 months. My son is a wild one and I have days (like today) where all I want to do is cry.
My ex husband is not supportive and trys his best to undermine every action I take with our children. They come back from his house and are harder to deal with than normal. My 5 year old is starting to pattern herself after her brother.
My son has been in programs before and has been said to have ADHD, then said that he wasn't. I think he has ODD. He presents fairly much every symptom.
My new boyfriend is not adjusting to the kids and they hate him. My ex has laid the blame on him for everything and runs him down to the kids. they hated him before even meeting him. I am pregnant by him and have leaned on him for support, but now he says unless I have my house under control he is finished with me and will try to take this baby from me to prevent it from being raised like my son.
I feel as if I am falling apart. I have no friends to lean on here at home, my family undermines my attempts to make my son mind. I don't spank him, and time outs or removing his things doesn't even phase him.
Any help would be more appreciated than you know. I don't like sounding whiny, I do apologize for that, I am just losing it in a hurry.
Thanks for reading this.
Amy
My ex husband is not supportive and trys his best to undermine every action I take with our children. They come back from his house and are harder to deal with than normal. My 5 year old is starting to pattern herself after her brother.
My son has been in programs before and has been said to have ADHD, then said that he wasn't. I think he has ODD. He presents fairly much every symptom.
My new boyfriend is not adjusting to the kids and they hate him. My ex has laid the blame on him for everything and runs him down to the kids. they hated him before even meeting him. I am pregnant by him and have leaned on him for support, but now he says unless I have my house under control he is finished with me and will try to take this baby from me to prevent it from being raised like my son.
I feel as if I am falling apart. I have no friends to lean on here at home, my family undermines my attempts to make my son mind. I don't spank him, and time outs or removing his things doesn't even phase him.
Any help would be more appreciated than you know. I don't like sounding whiny, I do apologize for that, I am just losing it in a hurry.
Thanks for reading this.
Amy