KFld
New Member
Wow, it's been awhile!! I was just quickly looking through some threads and still see some familiar faces. Just read the thread by antsmom and I'm so happy to hear about your reconcilliation with ant.
I also see a lot of new faces here who will have no clue who I am but I'm hoping my update on my difficult child/former difficult child, never sure what to call him because as far as I'm concerned a difficult child will always have difficult child tendancies, they may just be more apparent at times than others, will give some of you hope.
As those of you who know me, know my son is a recovering heroin addict who had many stays in rehabs, sober houses etc. and was on suboxone for a few years. He switched from suboxone to buying methadone off the street which I was not happy about!!
As far as the heroin, he has not used in over 3 years, I was o.k. with the suboxone because it was prescribed, but as far as the methadone, I felt he was trading one for the other.
The good news: Right after Christmas he decided he was weaning himself off of the methadone and was totally determined and I'm glad to announce, very successful. He spent 3 or 4 days held up in his apartment with his girlfriend, and I was delivering him supplies such as gatorade, tylenol, bananas, everything I could think of to make him more comfortable, and he did it!! He has been totally clean now for around 4 months and doing very very well. Well, he's doing well as far as drug use, but financially is a different story of course. That's where the once a difficult child always a difficult child comes in as far as I'm concerned
He is going to counseling now and is taking a much needed prescription for anxiety which he has suffered from for years, but was very honest with the counselor in regards to his addiction. I can't remember what he's taking, but it's not a controlled substance that he will be addicted too or could sell on the streets. It's made a huge difference in his personality and ability to socialize.
He is very proud of himself and feels good about himself.
Financially, he's still working under the table in a job that he will never get anywhere with, always behind on his bills and will probably lose his apartment, but that is another step he is going to have to get over when it happens.
As they say, one step at a time.
Hope all is well with everyone else, or as well as it can be with a difficult child! Hope you are all staying strong and hanging in there.
P.S. my daughter is doing great. I'm still dating the same guy and my life is really good right now
I also see a lot of new faces here who will have no clue who I am but I'm hoping my update on my difficult child/former difficult child, never sure what to call him because as far as I'm concerned a difficult child will always have difficult child tendancies, they may just be more apparent at times than others, will give some of you hope.
As those of you who know me, know my son is a recovering heroin addict who had many stays in rehabs, sober houses etc. and was on suboxone for a few years. He switched from suboxone to buying methadone off the street which I was not happy about!!
As far as the heroin, he has not used in over 3 years, I was o.k. with the suboxone because it was prescribed, but as far as the methadone, I felt he was trading one for the other.
The good news: Right after Christmas he decided he was weaning himself off of the methadone and was totally determined and I'm glad to announce, very successful. He spent 3 or 4 days held up in his apartment with his girlfriend, and I was delivering him supplies such as gatorade, tylenol, bananas, everything I could think of to make him more comfortable, and he did it!! He has been totally clean now for around 4 months and doing very very well. Well, he's doing well as far as drug use, but financially is a different story of course. That's where the once a difficult child always a difficult child comes in as far as I'm concerned
He is going to counseling now and is taking a much needed prescription for anxiety which he has suffered from for years, but was very honest with the counselor in regards to his addiction. I can't remember what he's taking, but it's not a controlled substance that he will be addicted too or could sell on the streets. It's made a huge difference in his personality and ability to socialize.
He is very proud of himself and feels good about himself.
Financially, he's still working under the table in a job that he will never get anywhere with, always behind on his bills and will probably lose his apartment, but that is another step he is going to have to get over when it happens.
As they say, one step at a time.
Hope all is well with everyone else, or as well as it can be with a difficult child! Hope you are all staying strong and hanging in there.
P.S. my daughter is doing great. I'm still dating the same guy and my life is really good right now