Well, I just typed this big long post and I hit something on the keyboard and it dissapeared. I don't know why that happens, but it's not funny!!!!!! Anyway, it's been awhile and I just checked into the other forums and did a little catching up on what is going on in everyones lives. Sounds like somethings have changed and some remain the same. You are all still in my thoughts and prayers even when I'm not here. I'm still in the process of the divorce and it should be final on April 15th as long as nothing becomes contested. My s2bx is out of his mind and totally irrational right now, still trying to blame everything in his life on everyone but himself and everyone has had it with him including his own family. His dad passed away very unexpectedly a few weeks ago and he went down to Florida to be with him mom and family for the service and focused on himself the entire time and drove everyone crazy. I just came back from Florida last week. I went to visit my dad in his new place, just five doors down from my mother in-law in the villages. I spent some good quality time with my dad and my mother in-law who I am still very very close too. I am still seeing the guy I met in January. He is very nice and still makes me laugh!! I need laughter in my life now more then I ever did as my s2bx has been accusing me of everything from stealing and hiding his money for years to mis-manageing his business. I did a printout of every bill we paid last year, and guess what???? there was no money left to hide or steal. He is really dillusional at this point and actually heavily medicated. If he actually ever went for psychiatric help they would probably commit him. My son is still doing great. He is still living with his girlfriend and remains clean for 1 1/2 years now. He is almost off the suboxone, continues to go to meetings and has no fear of coming off the suboxone. He feels he has made so many positive changes in his life that he has no fear of drugs becoming a part of it again. The only thing taking him so long to come off is that you go through withdrawals symptoms much like the heroin and the lower he goes the worse he feels, but he knows he just has to do it and be sick for a few days. My daughter is doing well. She actually had lyme disease and mono!!! and was on homebound from school with tutors for 6 weeks, but is now back in school part time and back to work. Well, I guess that's about it. Just wanted to check in quick and let you all know I'm still alive and kicking I did read about Mikey's son, so I'm going to try and check in the next few days and watch for an update as I'm really curious as to what will happen to him at court. Talk to you all again soon.