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help! 104 mph in a 55
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 114074" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Your son needs to take the bus or WALK to work and school. NO WAY should he have access to a car, no matter what. If he causes an accident and kills himself or someone else YOU very well may be held responsible. And I doubt your car insurance will cover him after the date of the ticket, here they will not unless he goes in and pays a whole lot more.</p><p></p><p>He really should have very few privileges. No new anything, no cell phone unless YOU need him to have it to get ahold of him.</p><p></p><p>It sounds like there is a WHOLE lot going on with him, not sure what you can do to force him to get help. The only thing I can think of is let the lawyer and courts know ASAP about each offense, they have access to programs you don't even know about. Maybe he can get help this way, but it may take a lot of pushing.</p><p></p><p>I do think HE should be calling his lawyer, but if YOU are financially responsible, then I understand wanting to know how things stand and what is going on.</p><p></p><p>As for his post, I missed it, but it is on him, not you. </p><p></p><p>The book Boundaries might help you figure out what you want to do/should do. </p><p></p><p>Sendind Hugs,</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 114074, member: 1233"] Your son needs to take the bus or WALK to work and school. NO WAY should he have access to a car, no matter what. If he causes an accident and kills himself or someone else YOU very well may be held responsible. And I doubt your car insurance will cover him after the date of the ticket, here they will not unless he goes in and pays a whole lot more. He really should have very few privileges. No new anything, no cell phone unless YOU need him to have it to get ahold of him. It sounds like there is a WHOLE lot going on with him, not sure what you can do to force him to get help. The only thing I can think of is let the lawyer and courts know ASAP about each offense, they have access to programs you don't even know about. Maybe he can get help this way, but it may take a lot of pushing. I do think HE should be calling his lawyer, but if YOU are financially responsible, then I understand wanting to know how things stand and what is going on. As for his post, I missed it, but it is on him, not you. The book Boundaries might help you figure out what you want to do/should do. Sendind Hugs, Susie [/QUOTE]
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