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Help!! 14 year old stepson with aspergers and some serious stealing fetishes
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 466495" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>I agree with all of Susiestars post. I was thinking the same thing right away about the underwear...the texture, or even the just washed smell (I think you said he is taking them from your drawer right, not the dirty laundry--sorry to be icky about it but either way it can be the smell sorry to say) I actually had a niece who didn't like blankets, only liked her mom's slips. (No Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) there, she is a normal annoying 15 yr old now)</p><p></p><p>I know it is scary because people might not understand....and certainly he might have a sexual fettish.... but....just for an example there are many things that, if people took at face value when my son says them ..... well we both might be in lock down.</p><p></p><p>example: he repeats over and over, fortunately not in public but sometimes in front of a neighbor or friend or relative or two...."Lick my penis". Ok I would be super worried if I didn't know the history and his issues. He started saying this very very young when he would imitate every single thing the dog and cat did. He wanted a collar, climbed in the kennel, wanted to be on a leash, curled up on the back of the couch like the cat, even pooped outside once-yeah that was fun--- etc. Total imitation. Guess how animals clean themselves??? THAT is where it started. But, because along the way a few folks made a huge deal out of it with him, he now peseverates on it. I hear him say it even he is all alone and just doing something totally unrelated. (he has several statements that are just odd that he repeats) He just babbles annoying things at times. That is not the same issue you have but the point that they may not know the nature or effect of what they are saying is what I am getting at. Pretty common for Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) and Aspies.</p><p></p><p>Oh yeah, mine "borrows" things too. Yup that is the word he uses. Pretty much it is "found" things but we need to clarify just because it is on the floor in your cousin's bedroom does not mean it was a random lost gameboy game. etc etc etc... Much improved, but probably going to be tricky for you with two standards of behavior for him to have to live by. Sorry for the stress. It sure can be hard.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 466495, member: 12886"] I agree with all of Susiestars post. I was thinking the same thing right away about the underwear...the texture, or even the just washed smell (I think you said he is taking them from your drawer right, not the dirty laundry--sorry to be icky about it but either way it can be the smell sorry to say) I actually had a niece who didn't like blankets, only liked her mom's slips. (No Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) there, she is a normal annoying 15 yr old now) I know it is scary because people might not understand....and certainly he might have a sexual fettish.... but....just for an example there are many things that, if people took at face value when my son says them ..... well we both might be in lock down. example: he repeats over and over, fortunately not in public but sometimes in front of a neighbor or friend or relative or two...."Lick my penis". Ok I would be super worried if I didn't know the history and his issues. He started saying this very very young when he would imitate every single thing the dog and cat did. He wanted a collar, climbed in the kennel, wanted to be on a leash, curled up on the back of the couch like the cat, even pooped outside once-yeah that was fun--- etc. Total imitation. Guess how animals clean themselves??? THAT is where it started. But, because along the way a few folks made a huge deal out of it with him, he now peseverates on it. I hear him say it even he is all alone and just doing something totally unrelated. (he has several statements that are just odd that he repeats) He just babbles annoying things at times. That is not the same issue you have but the point that they may not know the nature or effect of what they are saying is what I am getting at. Pretty common for Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) and Aspies. Oh yeah, mine "borrows" things too. Yup that is the word he uses. Pretty much it is "found" things but we need to clarify just because it is on the floor in your cousin's bedroom does not mean it was a random lost gameboy game. etc etc etc... Much improved, but probably going to be tricky for you with two standards of behavior for him to have to live by. Sorry for the stress. It sure can be hard. [/QUOTE]
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