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<blockquote data-quote="flutterby" data-source="post: 467569" data-attributes="member: 7083"><p>Yes, I have felt this way, too. For 2 months earlier this year, I couldn't stand my daughter. I didn't want to look at her and didn't want to talk to her. I didn't talk to her much, either, during that time. Then again this summer, I contacted Children's Services and asked them what would happen to me if I took her to them and told them I couldn't do it anymore. I certainly didn't hold my daughter as a newborn, look into her eyes, and think "I'm going to hate you in about 16 years." It's a horrible feeling; it makes you feel like a horrible mother. However, if we were truly horrible mothers we wouldn't feel horrible for feeling that way. We're human and we have our limits. </p><p></p><p>I get respite now. It's not enough, but it's better than it was. It's amazing how relaxed I become almost immediately when she leaves. It definitely helps.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterby, post: 467569, member: 7083"] Yes, I have felt this way, too. For 2 months earlier this year, I couldn't stand my daughter. I didn't want to look at her and didn't want to talk to her. I didn't talk to her much, either, during that time. Then again this summer, I contacted Children's Services and asked them what would happen to me if I took her to them and told them I couldn't do it anymore. I certainly didn't hold my daughter as a newborn, look into her eyes, and think "I'm going to hate you in about 16 years." It's a horrible feeling; it makes you feel like a horrible mother. However, if we were truly horrible mothers we wouldn't feel horrible for feeling that way. We're human and we have our limits. I get respite now. It's not enough, but it's better than it was. It's amazing how relaxed I become almost immediately when she leaves. It definitely helps. [/QUOTE]
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