well today difficult child II really did it. He threatened our neighbor (his "friend") with an aluminum bat and hit his bike with it and his front door. The neighbor on the other side (we live in townhouses) came out and told him to stop and he flipped her the bird, sigh................... Neighbor's Mom approaches D/H when he gets home from work and tells him what happened and that she's considering pressing charges, sigh.............. Now this is a "friend" I've always worry about difficult child II playing with, becuase he is a great "verbal" tormentor, and it's my guess this is what led up to this MESS, of course difficult child II is <span style="color: #CC0000">wrong</span>. But difficult child II is not sorry, he is actually being coi and catatonic saying "it's no big deal". At what point do we have them admitted for impatient treatment? And how? Luckily he has a counseling appointment 2morrow. He is on Wellbutrin, Lexapro and Abilify and I have been telling them for a long time I did not think they are helping. thank you for any words of wisdom in advance I am very frazzled!