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<blockquote data-quote="libranaster" data-source="post: 154063" data-attributes="member: 5154"><p>Oh my god you can be my best friend, you just made my kids sound normal with the sneaky behaviour. It can drive you mad I know. I am so sick of things being stolen, damaged and destroyed by my kids its not funny and having to put locks on everything is just hell on a stick. I even had to put a chain at the very top of my front door because the little shizers learned how to unlock it and would get outside. Oh and sure they are smart when it comes to ways to get into stuff but when it comes to developmental mile stones like potty training or learning how to speak we get the 'me no know how to speaka the English' treatment. </p><p> </p><p>Potty training what can I say I am at the point with my 3.5 year old where I have put my hands in the air and put pull ups on him and I just change 'em like nappies. I am not going to fight it. I can't give you solutions I am afraid I am in your boat sinking with you but I got my son's play group teacher to refer us to the Early Learning Centre I will let you know what I come back with in the potty training area. I was really on the potty training but when I put undies on our son and he was not grossed out by pooping or weeing them I have to say that was the last straw with me I am being as lazy as he is about it <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/devil2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":devil2:" title="devil2 :devil2:" data-shortname=":devil2:" />. You can't fight a loosing battle, make her wear nappies to school <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/devil2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":devil2:" title="devil2 :devil2:" data-shortname=":devil2:" />. </p><p> </p><p>If my child was like that at six for no other reason than pure laziness and couldn't get how dirty it was I know its mean but I would embarrass her into it by making it clear she wont use the toilet to her class mates you watch how fast she goes when she has the peer pressure and the teasing to deal with<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/devil2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":devil2:" title="devil2 :devil2:" data-shortname=":devil2:" />. Isn't that nasty really but that is what I will be doing with my son I have given up on him and he is due to start school next year. I don't know where you are from but I am from Australia and here children start kindergarten at 4 going on 5. If he wont use to toilet and just pees or poops everywhere still for no other reason than pure laziness than that is it he goes to school in nappies. I of course am having him asessed first I mean I am not going to blame things on him that aren't his fault.</p><p> </p><p>Its certainly a different world these days its a wonder teasing hasn't started already for your child over this. When I was a kid she wouldn't have stood a chance her lunch money would be stolen and her school days would be Hell unless she was moved to another school where noone knew about the lack of toilet training now it seems it is acceptable for children to not be toilet trained and I just think that it shouldn't be but the blame should not be put on the parent a child over 4 should be able to understand that when you need to pee you go to the toilet, don't play in the water don't pee all over the toilet and don't paint with poop all over the walls go to the toilet. If they can't understand then I feel sorry for them and if they wont I feel sorry for the parent. </p><p> </p><p>Ok this reply has turned into my own rant about toilet training but I am sure you get my frustration anyway. As I said I will get back to you if the early learning centre can give me any good ideas about potty training that you might not have tried.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="libranaster, post: 154063, member: 5154"] Oh my god you can be my best friend, you just made my kids sound normal with the sneaky behaviour. It can drive you mad I know. I am so sick of things being stolen, damaged and destroyed by my kids its not funny and having to put locks on everything is just hell on a stick. I even had to put a chain at the very top of my front door because the little shizers learned how to unlock it and would get outside. Oh and sure they are smart when it comes to ways to get into stuff but when it comes to developmental mile stones like potty training or learning how to speak we get the 'me no know how to speaka the English' treatment. Potty training what can I say I am at the point with my 3.5 year old where I have put my hands in the air and put pull ups on him and I just change 'em like nappies. I am not going to fight it. I can't give you solutions I am afraid I am in your boat sinking with you but I got my son's play group teacher to refer us to the Early Learning Centre I will let you know what I come back with in the potty training area. I was really on the potty training but when I put undies on our son and he was not grossed out by pooping or weeing them I have to say that was the last straw with me I am being as lazy as he is about it :devil2:. You can't fight a loosing battle, make her wear nappies to school :devil2:. If my child was like that at six for no other reason than pure laziness and couldn't get how dirty it was I know its mean but I would embarrass her into it by making it clear she wont use the toilet to her class mates you watch how fast she goes when she has the peer pressure and the teasing to deal with:devil2:. Isn't that nasty really but that is what I will be doing with my son I have given up on him and he is due to start school next year. I don't know where you are from but I am from Australia and here children start kindergarten at 4 going on 5. If he wont use to toilet and just pees or poops everywhere still for no other reason than pure laziness than that is it he goes to school in nappies. I of course am having him asessed first I mean I am not going to blame things on him that aren't his fault. Its certainly a different world these days its a wonder teasing hasn't started already for your child over this. When I was a kid she wouldn't have stood a chance her lunch money would be stolen and her school days would be Hell unless she was moved to another school where noone knew about the lack of toilet training now it seems it is acceptable for children to not be toilet trained and I just think that it shouldn't be but the blame should not be put on the parent a child over 4 should be able to understand that when you need to pee you go to the toilet, don't play in the water don't pee all over the toilet and don't paint with poop all over the walls go to the toilet. If they can't understand then I feel sorry for them and if they wont I feel sorry for the parent. Ok this reply has turned into my own rant about toilet training but I am sure you get my frustration anyway. As I said I will get back to you if the early learning centre can give me any good ideas about potty training that you might not have tried. [/QUOTE]
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