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Help! Divorced and I disagree with ex and the doctors
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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 525952" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>What does your easy child share with you about her brother's behavioral pattern at Dad's house? I would think her input would be valuable unless the friction between parents/households has been ingrained. Do the children go to the same school when staying at different homes? Have the same social schedule/friends?</p><p></p><p>Since you are not a newbie I'll speak a bit more frankly. Is it remotely possible that your difficult child is displaying different behaviors at your home due to the stress of adapting? I was divorced with children in elementary and even the PCs showed signs of stress when they visited their Dad. Could that be a big factor?</p><p></p><p>It sure seems like you have accessed quality professionals so that doesn't send up a red flag. Have you kept a brief journal showing when your son gets upset (times of day, activity preceeding outburst, degree of tantrum) etc. so that you can "see" and also "share" patterns and frequency? That's been very valuable for many of us.</p><p></p><p>Glad you're back but sorry you need to be. Hopefully "the family" will help you find resolution. Hugs DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 525952, member: 35"] What does your easy child share with you about her brother's behavioral pattern at Dad's house? I would think her input would be valuable unless the friction between parents/households has been ingrained. Do the children go to the same school when staying at different homes? Have the same social schedule/friends? Since you are not a newbie I'll speak a bit more frankly. Is it remotely possible that your difficult child is displaying different behaviors at your home due to the stress of adapting? I was divorced with children in elementary and even the PCs showed signs of stress when they visited their Dad. Could that be a big factor? It sure seems like you have accessed quality professionals so that doesn't send up a red flag. Have you kept a brief journal showing when your son gets upset (times of day, activity preceeding outburst, degree of tantrum) etc. so that you can "see" and also "share" patterns and frequency? That's been very valuable for many of us. Glad you're back but sorry you need to be. Hopefully "the family" will help you find resolution. Hugs DDD [/QUOTE]
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