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Help! Fiance Continues to Enable Her Daughter
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<blockquote data-quote="Frustrated2019" data-source="post: 747953" data-attributes="member: 23774"><p>Hi RN0441,</p><p></p><p>Thank you for your time and good thoughts...and by the way if you are a Nurse, or related...thank you so much for all that you do!</p><p>I agree...we cannot change others, maybe by example, but certainly not by overt or controlling means...and that is something for both me and my fiance to remain aware of! </p><p></p><p>Yeah, getting married while this is all going on is certainly stressful, but stuff happens for a reason. If it was nothing more than my fiance writing a check here and there that is one thing...but it usually never is. What concerns me is if the daughter becomes homeless or pregnant, or something else serious and wants to live with us (which I've already stated ain't gonna happen...and my fiance agrees), that will certainly cause stress and tension between me and my fiance/wife. While my fiance and I are on the same page now, if her daughter calls crying that she has nowhere to go, then my fiance might back off our agreement...and therein lies the future problem that has me concerned. Since there are no guarantees in life or with people usually, not sure what to do here.</p><p></p><p>Your last sentence is spot on...and I laughed at the "Yuck." LOL....</p><p></p><p>Thank you for your help and insight. Peace</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Frustrated2019, post: 747953, member: 23774"] Hi RN0441, Thank you for your time and good thoughts...and by the way if you are a Nurse, or related...thank you so much for all that you do! I agree...we cannot change others, maybe by example, but certainly not by overt or controlling means...and that is something for both me and my fiance to remain aware of! Yeah, getting married while this is all going on is certainly stressful, but stuff happens for a reason. If it was nothing more than my fiance writing a check here and there that is one thing...but it usually never is. What concerns me is if the daughter becomes homeless or pregnant, or something else serious and wants to live with us (which I've already stated ain't gonna happen...and my fiance agrees), that will certainly cause stress and tension between me and my fiance/wife. While my fiance and I are on the same page now, if her daughter calls crying that she has nowhere to go, then my fiance might back off our agreement...and therein lies the future problem that has me concerned. Since there are no guarantees in life or with people usually, not sure what to do here. Your last sentence is spot on...and I laughed at the "Yuck." LOL.... Thank you for your help and insight. Peace [/QUOTE]
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